Ok I've been having some problems with being picked on recently at my school. Fortunately there are no evil-eyed, serious bullies I know...however, one of my so-called "friends" has, for a while, found fun in putting me down in front of crowds. He does it while laughing...and tries to get others to laugh along with him...AT me. I'm a skinny, weak guy...he's kinda fat but strong. Some of his buds (including a few people who I can't seem to get away from) like to play-fight a lot, and since I'm weak I'm often a target. Again...he's not MAD at me or anything...he's doing it for his own FUN. Now it's not just him because I do get playfully teased a lot by other normal guys, but with them I can usually laugh off and handle because they're like "just playing, you're cool" or whatever.
Anybody have any advice on how to stop this clown and to minimize being teased by others? It's sometimes embarrassing...I don't like it and I feel stupid that I actually considered him my friend for a long time this year.
Here's the second part...some girls have started to stand up for me. In one class today, some kids were chanting my name in one class (very random, but I handled it like it was a funny-yet-wtf type thing). Now I was cool with that even though it is kind of "teasing" me...but the girl who sits across from me who I happened to try to get a while back said REAL quietly I could barely hear her, "stop picking on him" or something. THEN...later today when some stupid kids who like to play-fight started cornering me and lightly punching (again, fun and games but still annoying)...one girl who was in a girl group nearby just yelled "stop!" or something. She was one who also had earlier asked that jerk how come he picked on me so much. I'm pretty good friends with her.
So uhh, it seems like they feel sorry for me or something...I think it's kind of good that they're standing up for me but then I just feel like I'm helpless and they're only doing it because they feel SORRY for a weak, pansy boy and nothing more. Or could they like me to an extent, and that's why they're being vocal when I'm being teased? (optimistic, I know)
Just to clarify I'm really not seen as that big of a whimp, and this is just a small part of how people look at me. I'm a nice guy, I'll admit that, but I'm definately not a geek/nerd either. Other than not having much build, I'm not that bad looking at all. And I do have plenty of cool guy friends who don't do that...it's just that certain percentage who do. Help on the teasers and input on what the girls are really thinking would be greatly appreciated.
Anybody have any advice on how to stop this clown and to minimize being teased by others? It's sometimes embarrassing...I don't like it and I feel stupid that I actually considered him my friend for a long time this year.
Here's the second part...some girls have started to stand up for me. In one class today, some kids were chanting my name in one class (very random, but I handled it like it was a funny-yet-wtf type thing). Now I was cool with that even though it is kind of "teasing" me...but the girl who sits across from me who I happened to try to get a while back said REAL quietly I could barely hear her, "stop picking on him" or something. THEN...later today when some stupid kids who like to play-fight started cornering me and lightly punching (again, fun and games but still annoying)...one girl who was in a girl group nearby just yelled "stop!" or something. She was one who also had earlier asked that jerk how come he picked on me so much. I'm pretty good friends with her.
So uhh, it seems like they feel sorry for me or something...I think it's kind of good that they're standing up for me but then I just feel like I'm helpless and they're only doing it because they feel SORRY for a weak, pansy boy and nothing more. Or could they like me to an extent, and that's why they're being vocal when I'm being teased? (optimistic, I know)
Just to clarify I'm really not seen as that big of a whimp, and this is just a small part of how people look at me. I'm a nice guy, I'll admit that, but I'm definately not a geek/nerd either. Other than not having much build, I'm not that bad looking at all. And I do have plenty of cool guy friends who don't do that...it's just that certain percentage who do. Help on the teasers and input on what the girls are really thinking would be greatly appreciated.