Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girls ex-booty call keeps calling her, what to do?

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so been seeing this girl for about 5 months, all of a sudden her ex booty call keeps calling her late at night while she's with me. she just ignores it. basically this guy she fooled around with summer of 08, but then she stopped talking to him and met me. she tells me that he keeps calling but she didn't answer. I told her next time he calls I should answer it. but she doesn't want me to cause she's afraid it will cause trouble. She tells me she should just answer and tell him stop calling herself or answer to see what he wants? But the thing is she's too nice and she probably won't be able to tell him off. What is the best thing to do in this situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best thing to do is exactly what you said. Pickup the phone and tell him to lay off.

Don't get mad at your chick, that's the rash response to the problem.

I remember my ex's ex would call her all the time. One time he called and I picked up, "yeah this is erica's phone, what can i do for you?"

He never called again. I placed my dominance over him, so she never talked to him again.
 

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WC2 said:
Best thing to do is exactly what you said. Pickup the phone and tell him to lay off.

Don't get mad at your chick, that's the rash response to the problem.

I remember my ex's ex would call her all the time. One time he called and I picked up, "yeah this is erica's phone, what can i do for you?"

He never called again. I placed my dominance over him, so she never talked to him again.
Good suggestion there. As long as your gf keeps ignoring and not answering his calls. No problem... Or she could just tell the guy straight up that she is with you now.
 

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WC2 said:
Best thing to do is exactly what you said. Pickup the phone and tell him to lay off.

Don't get mad at your chick, that's the rash response to the problem.

I remember my ex's ex would call her all the time. One time he called and I picked up, "yeah this is erica's phone, what can i do for you?"

He never called again. I placed my dominance over him, so she never talked to him again.
Exactly, but don't get angry or protective. Be intimidating in the ****y/funny/FRIENDLY way.
 
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