"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls Everywhere...NYC is great

Leporello

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I just moved to the city, and...WOW.

Go to the supermarket and there's girls shopping.

Walk in the park and the girls bring their dogs.

Go to the laundromat and girls are washing their clothes!

I know this is true everywhere, but in NYC the sheer volume is amazing...plus the ethnic diversity...and that New York is one of the few places in America with European beauty standards.

It is just me or do people in New York City have this kind of wink-and-nod thing going on, like you're all in a secret together, that makes them easier to talk to?

It's been a little slow for me socially so far because most of my friends are just getting back into the city. Starting next week, though...the FRs will start flowing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeymourCake

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Yup New York is sure like that. I wished I still lived there. It's great seeing how there's so many people there.

I now live in some suburb in Texas. ;_;

Congratulations on moving to New York. Get ready for the cold fall and winter that's soon to come.

Use this opportunity to DJ these women. Where are you from any way?
 

Falcon25

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Moving too a big city soon. Love hearing these things. Are they friendly? I wasted my life living in a small city in the West. I HATE IT. Tell me more. Want to hear about living there. I have no friends anywhere in the East, but people tell me it's great.
 

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You're right in the street they are every where, but tell me they hang out en mass. Believe it or not, my wingman and I having a hard time finding target rich locations in NYC. I have a theory as to why. Being that it's so many places to party at in NYC, the chicks are actually dispersed among the many locations in the city. That being so, you're not going to get large numbers of them in one place.

My boy and I have also decided to go to the clubs that the radio station dj's will be at. For some reason like to go to clubs that radio station dj's will be at to hear them play the unedited version of songs they already here on the radio. The NegMan and I are also considering checking out the Hoboken bar scene. NYC is the place where you can really perfect your day game though. Tomorrow is the West Indian Carnival in Brooklyn. This is (and the Puerto Rican Day Parade,) are the largest in the city. 2 Million people are crammed on Eastern Parkway from Utica Ave to Grand Army Plaza. The crowd is mostly blacks of Carribbean descent. You can really get some serious game off here. Of course I'll be in attendance trying to "come up on a lil' sumthing 'round there."
 

Leporello

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I'm originally from Washington dc, which is a much smaller city and not nearly as freewheeling.

I was at the Brazil Festival today and dammit, I just couldn't make myself cold approach them. No excuses! But.I am one of those guys who needs an excuse to open a convo. Anything will do, but I have to have an 'in' or I'm sunk'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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