"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls Everywhere...NYC is great

Leporello

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I just moved to the city, and...WOW.

Go to the supermarket and there's girls shopping.

Walk in the park and the girls bring their dogs.

Go to the laundromat and girls are washing their clothes!

I know this is true everywhere, but in NYC the sheer volume is amazing...plus the ethnic diversity...and that New York is one of the few places in America with European beauty standards.

It is just me or do people in New York City have this kind of wink-and-nod thing going on, like you're all in a secret together, that makes them easier to talk to?

It's been a little slow for me socially so far because most of my friends are just getting back into the city. Starting next week, though...the FRs will start flowing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SeymourCake

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Yup New York is sure like that. I wished I still lived there. It's great seeing how there's so many people there.

I now live in some suburb in Texas. ;_;

Congratulations on moving to New York. Get ready for the cold fall and winter that's soon to come.

Use this opportunity to DJ these women. Where are you from any way?
 

Falcon25

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Moving too a big city soon. Love hearing these things. Are they friendly? I wasted my life living in a small city in the West. I HATE IT. Tell me more. Want to hear about living there. I have no friends anywhere in the East, but people tell me it's great.
 

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You're right in the street they are every where, but tell me they hang out en mass. Believe it or not, my wingman and I having a hard time finding target rich locations in NYC. I have a theory as to why. Being that it's so many places to party at in NYC, the chicks are actually dispersed among the many locations in the city. That being so, you're not going to get large numbers of them in one place.

My boy and I have also decided to go to the clubs that the radio station dj's will be at. For some reason like to go to clubs that radio station dj's will be at to hear them play the unedited version of songs they already here on the radio. The NegMan and I are also considering checking out the Hoboken bar scene. NYC is the place where you can really perfect your day game though. Tomorrow is the West Indian Carnival in Brooklyn. This is (and the Puerto Rican Day Parade,) are the largest in the city. 2 Million people are crammed on Eastern Parkway from Utica Ave to Grand Army Plaza. The crowd is mostly blacks of Carribbean descent. You can really get some serious game off here. Of course I'll be in attendance trying to "come up on a lil' sumthing 'round there."
 

Leporello

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I'm originally from Washington dc, which is a much smaller city and not nearly as freewheeling.

I was at the Brazil Festival today and dammit, I just couldn't make myself cold approach them. No excuses! But.I am one of those guys who needs an excuse to open a convo. Anything will do, but I have to have an 'in' or I'm sunk'
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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