"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls' e-mail addresses

Nikar

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Ok, just need to get more opinion on asking girls for their e-mail addresses instead of phone numbers.

I'm from an Asian country and the girls here are kinda more conservative. Thus, asking for phone numbers can kinda freak them out. An e-mail address is more secure and comfortable for them, as they can just delete the e-mail etc.
I can get her phone number afer the first few e-mails.

Now, I would like to ask all the guys here who've approached female strangers for their e-mail addresses.

Did you succeed or fail with most of them? Did most of them reject you? Gave you crap?

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gts007

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Yeah maybe it's different over there but getting her email address without getting her number is basically like getting rejected in a semi-nice way. It means absolutely nothing and it's pretty lame IMO.
 

Nikar

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Thanks guys.
By the way, can anyone gimme a link to the DJ Bible? I can't seem to find it.
 
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