"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls' e-mail addresses

Nikar

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Ok, just need to get more opinion on asking girls for their e-mail addresses instead of phone numbers.

I'm from an Asian country and the girls here are kinda more conservative. Thus, asking for phone numbers can kinda freak them out. An e-mail address is more secure and comfortable for them, as they can just delete the e-mail etc.
I can get her phone number afer the first few e-mails.

Now, I would like to ask all the guys here who've approached female strangers for their e-mail addresses.

Did you succeed or fail with most of them? Did most of them reject you? Gave you crap?

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gts007

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Yeah maybe it's different over there but getting her email address without getting her number is basically like getting rejected in a semi-nice way. It means absolutely nothing and it's pretty lame IMO.
 

Nikar

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Thanks guys.
By the way, can anyone gimme a link to the DJ Bible? I can't seem to find it.
 
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