So I'm in college, and I've noticed that when I ask a girl who gave me her number to go out to the park or something, they'd always rather meet at a party...That's cool and all but during the summer when you're away from school its WACK. Just my thoughts..
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Girls Dont Want to Go On Dates Anymore
- Thread starter Jonblood
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
never ever ever ever call them 'dates' to girls under 27 or so. You're 'hanging out' or 'Getting together' the word 'Date' to them is a boring, high pressure thing they can't handle unless they are already super into you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Why take college girls out on real dates? It's like giving a gold watch to a 5 year old. They're too young to appreciate it.
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I wouldn't even call it a date to a 57 year old! I won't even ask a girl to hang out, cuz they translate it as date. But you're right about the fact that they need to be super into you.yuppaz said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
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So then what do you do with college girls?
I'm getting shit in college and I have no idea what else to do.
I'm getting shit in college and I have no idea what else to do.
For me it's pretty specific because I go to college in a city and everyone lives close to eachother, but...
You go to one party, you chill with people there, you continue on going to parties and ****, you just lay down some "game" or whatever you want to call it on girls at these different events, and then at some point leave together. Usually the "leaving together" thing happens after the party has moved to a club/bar. Also, of course, you can get the number at any point along the way (usually I leave that 'til I've been at a gathering featuring this girl twice or three times) and progress from there.
Others will have more interesting techniques I'm sure, but I basically go to all parties, all potlucks, all nights out and you start seeing familiar overlaps of people between the different friend groups. So you don't even bother with the phone number or the date or any of the bull****. Loose connections, lots of loose connections all the time.
Also note that this is perfect because it's just an extension of my social life. AND note that you have insta-social proof because you hang out with so many people that you have respect with all kinds of groups. Sweet.
And again, note that unfortunately my "model" of doing things isn't applicable to all college people.
You go to one party, you chill with people there, you continue on going to parties and ****, you just lay down some "game" or whatever you want to call it on girls at these different events, and then at some point leave together. Usually the "leaving together" thing happens after the party has moved to a club/bar. Also, of course, you can get the number at any point along the way (usually I leave that 'til I've been at a gathering featuring this girl twice or three times) and progress from there.
Others will have more interesting techniques I'm sure, but I basically go to all parties, all potlucks, all nights out and you start seeing familiar overlaps of people between the different friend groups. So you don't even bother with the phone number or the date or any of the bull****. Loose connections, lots of loose connections all the time.
Also note that this is perfect because it's just an extension of my social life. AND note that you have insta-social proof because you hang out with so many people that you have respect with all kinds of groups. Sweet.
And again, note that unfortunately my "model" of doing things isn't applicable to all college people.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Hmm that's a very different approach. Though it seems like it works.
So how do you get into that scene? I've been going to a big uni in SoCal and I haven't been to a single party or social event. I just don't know the right people.
So how do you get into that scene? I've been going to a big uni in SoCal and I haven't been to a single party or social event. I just don't know the right people.
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Sometimes you just gotta go alone. As scary as that may sound, just do it! Find flyers for these events and just go.Maxtro said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I would if I knew about them. I've gone to some pretty crazy places by myself. Going to a house party is no sweat.nismo-4 said:
I just need to find out where they are.
CuriousGirl
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Yeah they do, they're either shy/nervous or they're not into you that much.