the_ajp
Don Juan
Hey people I haven't looked at this forum for a while. I learned a lot here and I've been pretty succesfull with women since then. But now a new problem rises.
When I go out I can aproach women I can get them to sleep with me even more than once. But I get the feeling they keep seeing me as a piece of ass (And I'm not some hot model type with a sixpack and all that jazz). Why is this?
Example:
A month or so I picked up a girl in a bar after we both ditched the people we were with we had a briliant time and at the end of the evening we walk back to my place, and offcoure you have to ask: "Want to come in?". I see her doubt for a moment and then say: "Sure *smile*". So we have briliant sex or at least I have and I did get the distinct feeling she has too. So we met for a few more times on purpose and not and we had sex on a few ocasions. Bus she isn't at ALL interested in me in any other way. And I have more of these women.
And she isn't the only one. But none of them actually want include me in their normal life. It's not that I'm looking for a relationship but I wouldn't mind to have a date with a girl outside of the party scene.
What should I change in my game ?
When I go out I can aproach women I can get them to sleep with me even more than once. But I get the feeling they keep seeing me as a piece of ass (And I'm not some hot model type with a sixpack and all that jazz). Why is this?
Example:
A month or so I picked up a girl in a bar after we both ditched the people we were with we had a briliant time and at the end of the evening we walk back to my place, and offcoure you have to ask: "Want to come in?". I see her doubt for a moment and then say: "Sure *smile*". So we have briliant sex or at least I have and I did get the distinct feeling she has too. So we met for a few more times on purpose and not and we had sex on a few ocasions. Bus she isn't at ALL interested in me in any other way. And I have more of these women.
And she isn't the only one. But none of them actually want include me in their normal life. It's not that I'm looking for a relationship but I wouldn't mind to have a date with a girl outside of the party scene.
What should I change in my game ?
But that'll be a lot harder I mean that girls in bars like a guy that's foreward and isn't afraid to talk to them. But girls anywhere else always give me the feeling they do want to be bothered. I guess that's my remaining fear of rejection speaking.