"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cablecow15

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Can sometimes be a early warning sign of how many issues a girl has lol

I was fooling with this one girl for a while , and the dog was nuts , annoying wouldn't listen barked all the time , pissed on the floor would bark if I touched the girl

I was watching that dog whisperer show the other day and he said " the dogs behavior mimics that of the owner" or something along those lines. It struck a chord in me , because this girl had so many hidden issues that were easily apparent in her dog.

she was messy unorganized and had a chaotic schedule and life
she clearly was not over multiple of her exes , and many other problems
all in one way or another voiced themselves through her dog

and even if this all seems nuts , bottom line is , if a girl cant control her dog , good luck on her controlling other aspect's of her life as she should

now am I saying drop a plate if her dog jumps on you ? lol no but beware , I like to arm myself with everything I can , but take it with a grain of salt
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Realistically the girl was more or less trying to mirror you. If you seem like the crazy unpredictable type, then she used the opportunity of utilizing her dog to do just that. Mirror you. Dog training is not easy, a lot of great people have dogs that can't be handled, not everybody has the time or money to train them. Training a dog takes dominance anyway. Are you trying to find a girl that will make you her b!tch? If anything, you have found yourself a very passive girl. So train her, as well as her dog. If you know what I mean.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

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That a woman has a pet at all -- is a warning sign. Pets are for kids/families. Adults pet their mates. Then you could categorize the warning according to the type of pet: big dog = insecurity, tiny dog = entitled, cats = unfeminine and overcompensating, reptiles = . . . . you get the picture.
 

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training a dog is one thing , letting it be out of control and making no effort to stop it is another , the dog would bark constantly , and she would just sit there , drove me nuts , plus she had a lot of issues that i didnt fee like listing


scars , im very confused by your post , I don't see how shes mirroring me , i have none of the problems she had , and we weren't in a relationship she was one of my plates that i spent to long on and should have dropped much sooner than i did

Im no longer speaking to this woman , but just looking back over the situation im trying to notice hints at her hidden faults , so i don't waste my time again
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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