"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls checking you out while you're driving

spinaroonie

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Anyone else notice this? While you're stopped at a light or waiting to turn, and the girl passing by or waiting at the bus stop will glance over your way and make direct eye contact. I drive a silver 09 MAZDA 3... I'm guessing nice car = instant DHV.

I'm noticing more girls checking me out while I'm driving than wakling per capita. There's always the classic honk - but anyone got tips for Car game?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pua1989

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my dad told me once a car full of girls pulled up next to him. they were all hollerin at him he was trying to mack. they started moving forward and he did too. they were in the left turn lane and he was in the straight lane. he ended up rear ending the person in front of him theres a tip on what not to do
 

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had a couple girls pull up next to me at a stop light the other day. they were like hey! i was in my own world but they kind of nodded and smiled then one blurted out your hot! it was fun and harmless.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nismo-4

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I drove a 98 Nissan Sentra and I had it looking like a BMW without ricing it. Simple, clean, classy, creative. A lot of chicks were checking me out whether I was driving it or cleaning it! I had no problem getting a chick in those cases since they were talking to me!

I got lucky enough to land a date with a couple of the New Orleans Hornets' Honeybees! Date didn't go so well, but I still consider myself lucky. It wouldn't have happened if the car was stock.

Also, if you nod your head to some rap or R&B music and make it obvious that you're having fun, girls who pull up next to you will check you out, sometimes follow suit, and you may get some digits. Make sure you're ready!
 

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Take Out Your Cell Phone Point to it and ask for her number... Otherwise get her to pull over and approach her that way.
 

pua1989

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or rear-end them so you have to exchange insurance. then casually ask her out
 

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Haha, I get chicks yelling stuff out at me in my 1989 ASTRA ._.
No idea why since it's an absolute piece of crap.

I get more honks and compliments while I'm walking up the road though, kinda sucks 'cuz what am I supposed to do back?
Like seriously.

I've yelled out "suck my ****" to no avail.
It's not like I can get their number whilst they drive past.
 

daytona

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pua1989 said:
or rear-end them so you have to exchange insurance. then casually ask her out
Fvck, I did that. Didn't go so well, I didn't get a date :(. Figured it doesn't hurt to try, both cars were wrecked. Oops...

Now I drive a black 99' Volvo S80 twin turbo, I get compliments a lot and I get the occasional looks but never had an opportunity to get a number that way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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