"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girls checking me out what to do??

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sportf190

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say a girl is checking u out and its really obvious what do you do??? starre at her longer till she breaks it?? look away and laugh?? just laugh? smile back at them?... i dont know i find myself in this situation alot and i look away and laugh and thats problaye the worst thing to do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wolve

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just mess around with them. smile and blow a kiss or something. just don't do it in a imgoingtofollowyouhome type of way.
 

splinterkb

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Definetly don't blow a kiss. They would think you're some kind of moron. I would put a mischevous half smile on when you're looking at her in the eyes.
 

toddC

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yea i think the blowing the kiss is a little overboard too throw her a cute smirk and let her break eye contact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bleoing a kiss i would look retarded so im not doin taht thanks guys
 

Kpocalypse

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why would it look retarded? If you do it i a funny way and you exagerate the kiss. She'd probably laugh and you'd have a terrific start.

what're the master don juans thoughts on this one?
 

The Master Disaster

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make a jesture towards your ass. Like obviously show that your ass is hot. slide yours hands up it playishfully. Make it so you acknoledge that they are look at you and you like the attention.
 

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Originally posted by ian1988
Go up to her and start puttin on the charm
Im suprised your the ONLY way that said to go talk to her. You get 5 points.
 

CrazyAsianBiker

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Well, don't smile or wave or anything, just walk up to her and say hi. She will obviously respond postiively, ask her for her name, introduce yourself, give a smile, leave the spot.

If you aren't always busy, look busy. Next time you see her follow up with more conversation, quick, but make the conversation longer everytime you talk to her. You should be getting her number within a week. If not, she's going to find some other guy and you're going to have a one itis.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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