"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls can be mean as hell.

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When to walk away and when to fight back with a chick?

I had a date with this chick we were making out, getting down etc. The next day she is talking behind my back saying I'm arrogant, self entitled jerk, didn't pay for her drink, creepy, weird, and idiot for treating her so bad. It is like women feel insulted when I ignore them or don't text enough.

I never asked her to kiss me. She asked me.

What gives?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You really don't want to end up with a mean chick. Good thing she flies her red flag now so you don't invest any more time, energy or money because she's not worth the drama. Bipolar much? Yes, she is.
 

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yea and she said she kissed me because she felt bad for me? WTH. Then she got mad because I didn't greet her at the door when she walked in.

She was whacked.
 

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When to walk away and when to fight back with a chick?

I had a date with this chick we were making out, getting down etc. The next day she is talking behind my back saying I'm arrogant, self entitled jerk, didn't pay for her drink, creepy, weird, and idiot for treating her so bad. It is like women feel insulted when I ignore them or don't text enough.

I never asked her to kiss me. She asked me.

What gives?
Nothing gives. If you where too nice, paid for her drink and gave her too much time she would've insulted you for being too available and "needy".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I didn't ask her out again. I said good luck to her. and she said whatever! good luck!
 

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It's good you've finally realized this fact. You should use this information to change your dating strategy or basically the way you relate to women. Basically the less you care the less it will bother or hurt you when they turn around on you like a circus tiger, who you've trained for 10 years, and maul your face (feelings) without hesitation or mercy.

No matter how sweet and kind they are to you they can always turn around on you and change.

The only real way to prevent this is to 1. avoid these toxic women 2. not care about her or what happens.
 

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When to walk away and when to fight back with a chick?

I had a date with this chick we were making out, getting down etc. The next day she is talking behind my back saying I'm arrogant, self entitled jerk, didn't pay for her drink, creepy, weird, and idiot for treating her so bad. It is like women feel insulted when I ignore them or don't text enough.

I never asked her to kiss me. She asked me.

What gives?
No offense ..........are you 15? A mean girl? I thought this was the Mature Man Section no the High School Forum.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No offense ..........are you 15? A mean girl? I thought this was the Mature Man Section no the High School Forum.
This guy seems to be a bit of a troll, he'll ask for advice, then have some made up elaborate story how he did the opposite of what was advised and how awesome his life is. It's really strange. I'd not give him any more attention on this forum.
 
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