"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls calling you ...names

Pozitron

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Ok.. maybe you faced this maybe not.
Firstly, What soes it mean and what should you do when this happens.
Some time ago ( but not at the same time) this happened to 2 girls: when I knew they were into me cause I kinoed and teased and .... they started calling me something like"jerk" (it's hard to translate.. something that means withou manners maybe). I must mention they were laughing and kind of tesing.. but they called me that.
What is that ****? Is it a test or something? How should a guy react to that ( the proper way)?
I must mention this girls were not the most well looking maybe 6-7 ( I have to use the scale) but they were into me.
What I did: I went flirty and playful like :" I am a ___" "Why Is that?" while kinoing or getting close..and I got the feeling it was good...idk. What's the way to go about this?

Secondly, do you remember B?.. cause it's about her.
Let's keep it short. She said " You were retarded today. Just today." She wasn't serious but she wasn't laughing.. she said it like there was a reason.
I asked her why and she was like just because.

Befire she said that I asked her to tell something about a srory we had to do in class. ( She acuzed me once of lying that I saw a movie). She wasn't fluent or something and I said ( playful I think) ' See, you're lying'. Then she said I was retarded today.

So I thought what I did different today and here is what I remembered:
- I talked to other girls as well, not only to her but I didn't like ignore her.
- It was this girl I saw on the hallway that I knew a friend likes ( I know I was a jack***, I just realized why). I was with a group of girls and I was telling her how I will or how it would be if I went to her and told her to meet my friend or convinced her to go and introduce herself to him. And I was like " Oh, if she walks around here again I will ask her name." And this whole time I looked at her.. like shen she passed I just looked at her - then she passed behind me, I turned my head and looked to her .
- Maybe I was straight forward and like I don't mind talking to girls and I was open about it.
- And one more thing: I got inside. I saw B walking outside and I "pushed her" a little with my fingers when she was next to me as I was walking. She said "ouch" but then again.. they always say ouch even if it doesn't hurt.

So what's up with that? Why did she say that? Was there a proper reaction to that?
DOn't get me wrong, I was just curious.. I'm not really like in awe of her or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pozitron

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:cheer: . Can you communicate more efficient than that cause that must be your most to th point repli :)).
 

LearningSlowly

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Pozitron said:
:cheer: . Can you communicate more efficient than that cause that must be your most to th point repli :)).
You're overanalyzing. Stop stressing yourself out.
 

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What I personally do is that I just smile and laugh. Because it's like the point of my actions was to act different and retarded. Like, I poke her and scare her. She tells me to stop and that I should never touch her again. When I can laugh my ass off, I just don't give a ****. Life goes on. If she tells you **** like that but mixes things up with a smile or a laugh, don't worry. It's good. If she's dead serious, maybe she's just acting or maybe it's real. If it's real, well **** this. Move on, don't apologize for doing your thing. What I would say is : Ohhh you suck. I like annoying you that's why!

Improvise. Enough said.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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