"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls buying you drinks?

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Dee-Zy

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yea, what the title says.

I just finished working 15 hours today, I'm too tired to get into details but


How do you feels about girls buying you drinks or offering to buy you a drink in clubs?

I declined the offer, but it was more of a spontaneous decision, I wasn't really thinking...

would you guys let em? Or decline?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's how I weed out the gold diggers. If they buy me a drink, then they make it through the first test.

Why not? Women have been doing it for decades!!!
 
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i very rarely buy women drinks unless i know them or get something in return.
if they buy me a drink i pretend to walk off like most WOMEN do when men buy THEM drinks
 
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