Girls bring up Sex topics

[BongDuy]

What do you usually say when a girl starts a converstion about sex? Do you act all ****y and confident still? Do you act humorous?

Example: Girl and you are shopping at a mall, and you pass a book that is titled " How to give amazing bl0wjobs" and she says " I've bought that once."

Would you reply with something ****y like " You would need that."
Or " Maybe you can show me later."


Any thoughts?

 

[Pathgen]

"What did you learn?"

Thats what i would have said

 

[shaunuk]

Depends entirely on context. When you start scripting these things...that's when it starts showing through. You need to develop the sort of personality that naturally says flirty, funny, sexual things . . . or things related to whatever the fvck the conversation is about.

 

[xdreamz]

if you talk openly about sex it shows confidence and supposedly has some insinuating power. i don't know about you if they talk about sex i get turned on and they seem hotter for some reason.

 

[BongDuy]

yeah, i didn't intend to memorize scripts or anything, but I was just curious about the attitude you have towards them when they bring it up.

Do you act modest and play a little " Ignorant." (Innocent? )
Do you act like a confident player who's been there and done that? ( ****y )

 

[dj_china]

i like "what did you learn"

its hard to deal just with mentalities though...

like what would be a good response to "my parents caught me having sex once"

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

What do you usually say when a girl starts a converstion about sex? Do you act all ****y and confident still? Do you act humorous?

Example: Girl and you are shopping at a mall, and you pass a book that is titled " How to give amazing bl0wjobs" and she says " I've bought that once."

Would you reply with something ****y like " You would need that."
Or " Maybe you can show me later."


Any thoughts?

Hey BongDuy,
Let me give you the real deal. In most cases, when women bring up sex in conversations, it is a test to see what your reaction is going to be. It makes women feel more powerful.

From a very early age, most women know they can control men sexually. This explains why many young girls do things just as act "ho-ish", dancing on each other at nightclubs and sometimes flirt with men without any intention of sleeping with them. It is a psychological need for attention.

Again and simply put, women who bring up sex typically want to see how you handle it. It's a test. So the question is, are you going to be the type of guy who acts "happy" and "excited" when she brings it up? Or are you going to play it cool? As I've said on other sites and in my books, the women who make an effort to display sexuality are normally the ones who love the thrill of TEASING...while it is often the QUIET ones that are the freakiest.

The best thing to do is to not let any "sex talk" phase you. A real mack/PUA looks at ACTIONS over WORDS. Chances are, this woman you are dealing with is a tease. And if you really believe she COULD be a freak, invite her to your place and see if she's going to "drop draws."

 

[synergy1]

What do you usually say when a girl starts a converstion about sex? Do you act all ****y and confident still? Do you act humorous?

Example: Girl and you are shopping at a mall, and you pass a book that is titled " How to give amazing bl0wjobs" and she says " I've bought that once."

Would you reply with something ****y like " You would need that."
Or " Maybe you can show me later."


Any thoughts?

Guess it depends on the situation, but my favorite response is playing the victim and telling her to stop being so shallow and using guys for sex. I tell her men are not sex objects and shouldn't be objectified in such a manner. Improv, but basically reverse the roles. Sometimes I tell them I am a virgin and that I am waiting for marriage or something. Anything to screw with them.

 

[S. Pryor]

If she starts talking about sex go the David X route and say "I don't like to talk about sex unless I know I'm about to get some"

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

If she starts talking about sex go the David X route and say "I don't like to talk about sex unless I know I'm about to get some"

:rockon:
LOL!

 

[BongDuy]

i like "what did you learn"

its hard to deal just with mentalities though...

like what would be a good response to "my parents caught me having sex once"

You could still respond " What did you learn?" lmao

And thanks for the insight Royal, I never thought of it that way, but it def sounds like a test.