BraddH
Master Don Juan
Today I learned something new.. It is like saying a girl is just "friends" with her ex..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl's "best boy-friend" can easily Be fvucling her..
- Thread starter BraddH
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonGorgon
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he is Fing her "best boy friend " usually means F buddyBraddH said:
dont worry about who else she is Fing just make sure she Fs you
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I wonder if life is very balanced. This guy seems to be absolutely ignorant of game yet he is so stupid looking. But his natural 'not caring' gives him absolute power. The chick he is best friend with is hot babe 9 and seeing the whole background story of them, they are probably fvucking.
It might be the hbs desire for attention but surely whether it is beta attention or not, as long as she sees him as 'best friend' there is power. Now trust, protection, providing is huge sexual power.
I remember when I was still playing best friends with chicks 2 years back, I could have easily banged them. The only thin stopping me was my condition that it is ugly and not allowed, creepy. Now that I think about it, I used to be sleeping with my 'best girl-friend' in spoon position because it was 'cold' but never wven thought of fvucking because it was 'wrong' and not allowed before a deep relationship or marriage.
And sometimes I feel so sure that life is balance. When I had my first sex in a deep relationship, it ws the best feeling I have gotten as far as sex is concerned. The Sex with hot babe nines are way too superficial and no way near my first sex encounter. It was much more deeper: feelings.
Hate me or no for accepting feelings but if you hate me, deep down I must have something very valuable. Otherwise what is the need to go as far as to hate? It is only painful for you.
As far as I am concerned every human being has feelings. You might not have feelings for a certain girl but certainly you have feelings for the idea that no feelings for any girl. Can you see my point? Your feelings are so much in the idea of not having feelings for girls. Now if you ever happen to have feeling or a certain girl and it is bound to happen, then you will hate yourself. And what is hate? If hate is not a feeling then certainly you have m failed understands life miserably. Because hate is one of the most deepest feelings in life. And as a man you dot have feelings! Those who says this are simply ignorants and knows nothing about life - and I am talking to the lot here, not just you.
You might not feel a deep love for a girl but you will hate her for breaking some ideas of you and you will love her for fulfilling some ideas of you. Whether you know it or not, you are being played by your ego - and a man does not have an ego!
It might be the hbs desire for attention but surely whether it is beta attention or not, as long as she sees him as 'best friend' there is power. Now trust, protection, providing is huge sexual power.
I remember when I was still playing best friends with chicks 2 years back, I could have easily banged them. The only thin stopping me was my condition that it is ugly and not allowed, creepy. Now that I think about it, I used to be sleeping with my 'best girl-friend' in spoon position because it was 'cold' but never wven thought of fvucking because it was 'wrong' and not allowed before a deep relationship or marriage.
And sometimes I feel so sure that life is balance. When I had my first sex in a deep relationship, it ws the best feeling I have gotten as far as sex is concerned. The Sex with hot babe nines are way too superficial and no way near my first sex encounter. It was much more deeper: feelings.
Hate me or no for accepting feelings but if you hate me, deep down I must have something very valuable. Otherwise what is the need to go as far as to hate? It is only painful for you.
As far as I am concerned every human being has feelings. You might not have feelings for a certain girl but certainly you have feelings for the idea that no feelings for any girl. Can you see my point? Your feelings are so much in the idea of not having feelings for girls. Now if you ever happen to have feeling or a certain girl and it is bound to happen, then you will hate yourself. And what is hate? If hate is not a feeling then certainly you have m failed understands life miserably. Because hate is one of the most deepest feelings in life. And as a man you dot have feelings! Those who says this are simply ignorants and knows nothing about life - and I am talking to the lot here, not just you.
You might not feel a deep love for a girl but you will hate her for breaking some ideas of you and you will love her for fulfilling some ideas of you. Whether you know it or not, you are being played by your ego - and a man does not have an ego!
Jair213
Master Don Juan
its ok to have feelings and grow feelings for a girl. its all about inner game and having control over your emotional state and feelings. without inner game you have already failed...BraddH said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Compare the guy in the example with a guy that thinks e knows game. The guy in example is naturally not caring whether the woman is calling him beat friennor no. The guy with game is simply pretending that he does not care because deep down he thinks he has lost because he is 'best friends' aka friend zoned.Jair213 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.