What can you get from this? Another thing is I usally see this on soley girls I hit on a little and like and they are not shy or anything like that, just nervous. Is that attraction or not?, I can never really tell. When I say nervous I mean there biting on stuff, taking freakishly and nervously fast, and kinda shaking. Vibe with me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls Being Nervous Around You
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Well everyone gets a little nervous when they're hit on/hitting on someone. It can also be a great indicator of attraction. Just depends on the situation.
For better advice read the attraction section of the DJ bible. I spent like a year 'studying/watching' people's interactions with one another and signs of interest or disinterest, and let me say it's shocking how similar everyone reacts to things.
It's really fascinating stuff, almost made me want to switch from engineering to psychology
For better advice read the attraction section of the DJ bible. I spent like a year 'studying/watching' people's interactions with one another and signs of interest or disinterest, and let me say it's shocking how similar everyone reacts to things.
It's really fascinating stuff, almost made me want to switch from engineering to psychology
GaryUranga
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be a psychologist, a publicist and a magician, youll be an unstoppable person on how to handle people, that has nothing to do with the topic but its true, know how people think (psychollogist) know what they want and how to make them want it (publicist) and know how to play with their minds, fool them and just get them to think what you want them to think (magician)
I dont mean it literally
I dont mean it literally
GaryUranga
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ok on a related note, I get this too, usually its the ugly shy girls who do it to me... notice ho I say ugly.. so I dont really pay attention.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
JayUK
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Just try and relax them if your having a problem, tell them a joke, and use some kindo but in a comfortable way as if your making her feel okay instead of kinda tryna turn her on
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She probably thinks you want to rape her.
As stupid as it sounds, I think thats what it is. I've been told I have a very intimidating impression on people. A lot of people i know had the impression of me when i first met them that I get maddd amounts of girls and sh.t. Surprise, I don't. This one girl mistaked for some guy thats going out with one of the hottest girls in my grade. wtffffffffff is my problem. why am i treading water in the same spot as i've been for a while?Legend Dude said:
lol, i'm always nervous when i talk to her, but i don't think it shows. I don't say too much, I speak at a low tone but sounding like i wanna fuk the sh.t outta her. I kno a lot about her, she knos nothing about me. she even asked my friend about me.soniq said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tr0ublemaker
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nervousness is a natural response to being flattered, unless you're a complete arrogant self-absorbed ballsack licker
Could be attraction. Could be they're still young enough that they haven't gotten comfortable with these kinds of things (having guys approach them). It could also be your vibe. Are you a hot football player that's intimidating? Do you come across as weird and scary?
What to do? Ignore it and keep talking to them. They're nerves will pass. Also take the lead and don't expect them to do anything for you. If you want them to do something then just ask and let them decide.
What to do? Ignore it and keep talking to them. They're nerves will pass. Also take the lead and don't expect them to do anything for you. If you want them to do something then just ask and let them decide.
GaryUranga
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of youre missing the point that girls are also AFCish.. some girls are just nervous around guys
some girls are just nervous around guys"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
THE_ADDMAN
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seems to be the general consensusGaryUranga said:of youre missing the point that girls are also AFCish..
its funny, they sit and talk about how they are soooo good at getting guys, and knowing what guys want, but they still lack the courage to ask out one they like
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either she likes you, or she knows that you like her. girls always get nervous around somebody that likes them.