This girl I met a while ago, cute but shes not hot but very smart and fun (unless really drunk). Her personality is generally good with a critical flaw, shes the extreme brat. Our relationship has been more of a respected friends with benefits type arrangement. She has even stated this and made it clear that she doesn't know where she's going after school.
However every couple of weeks it seems she just randomly goes off on me, sends me texts about how all her bfs treated her before and that i don't do enough nice things for her, I'm shady, you name it. With an apology the next day. Keep in mind, generally I have been nice to her, but I don't put her on a pedestal and don't tolerate the ****. So she did this again a few weeks back, I all but told her to F off. She had sent me a text early one day about how much she misses me later that day that I don't give her enough attention and shes done with me, it's over. Deleted me off Facebook even.
Soon enough she begs to see me, tells me how she is a brat and is immature and shouldn't make decisions like that. I see this as her being reasonable, almost begrudgingly I see her again, and then start having a good time. Fast forward only 3 weeks, and she blows again, I worked all day, got home late, my phone was dead have the day so I was not responsive until I got home and put my phone on a charger. I got all this crap about being shady, blah blah. Again next day apology followed with "even though youre still a bit shady".
Sorry for being wordy, today is her birthday, I wish her a happy birthday. I was planning on taking her out. She then demands to be taken out and tells me "Make a reservation at _____!!!!". A restaurant that is impossible to walk out of spending less than 80.00/person and that's trying to keep it low. And then she responds "you weren't going to do anything if I didn't demand it".
So generally she can be real nice and fun, but this brat entitled S%# makes me lose complete interest. But I feel like I'm just going to look like a cheap ass and that I'm trying to get out of spending anything if I tell her off on the day of her bday...
However every couple of weeks it seems she just randomly goes off on me, sends me texts about how all her bfs treated her before and that i don't do enough nice things for her, I'm shady, you name it. With an apology the next day. Keep in mind, generally I have been nice to her, but I don't put her on a pedestal and don't tolerate the ****. So she did this again a few weeks back, I all but told her to F off. She had sent me a text early one day about how much she misses me later that day that I don't give her enough attention and shes done with me, it's over. Deleted me off Facebook even.
Soon enough she begs to see me, tells me how she is a brat and is immature and shouldn't make decisions like that. I see this as her being reasonable, almost begrudgingly I see her again, and then start having a good time. Fast forward only 3 weeks, and she blows again, I worked all day, got home late, my phone was dead have the day so I was not responsive until I got home and put my phone on a charger. I got all this crap about being shady, blah blah. Again next day apology followed with "even though youre still a bit shady".
Sorry for being wordy, today is her birthday, I wish her a happy birthday. I was planning on taking her out. She then demands to be taken out and tells me "Make a reservation at _____!!!!". A restaurant that is impossible to walk out of spending less than 80.00/person and that's trying to keep it low. And then she responds "you weren't going to do anything if I didn't demand it".
So generally she can be real nice and fun, but this brat entitled S%# makes me lose complete interest. But I feel like I'm just going to look like a cheap ass and that I'm trying to get out of spending anything if I tell her off on the day of her bday...
