Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls at work.

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-Hey guys, i noticed alot of girls stare at me whenever i'm work. I don't know why, but everytime i'm near their sight, they'd turn, or just deer on headlights stare on me.

-I need help with this girl. We never talk at all before, but i see her staring at me whenever i'm near her sight. But when i'm close to her or walk by her, she'd ignore me and not look at me. But when i'm far away but at her eye range, she'd look at me. One time as i'm heading off from work, i see her standing in the middle of the hallway talking to some old guy because they were waiting to for their turn to do something. I walked by her and then she turned and looked at me, with a big grin on her face while looking at me. I wasn't sure if she was grinning at me or the old guys because he was making her laugh, but i gave her a friendly smile back. Can Don Juan alike help me out please, what is going on with this? :cry:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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We don't know each other though, is it possible for her to like me? I don't know where to start once i start talking to her. :cry:
 

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oh thats fine man, but it doesnt mean she doesnt think your good looking or whatever. try telling her hi for awhile when you pass her, then eventually say hows it going then start talking about how her jobs going or something. I know you can come up with something. remember atleast you gave it a try.=)
 

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Oh ok, thx for the advice man. You're awesome.:up: . If you or anybody else have any tips, as to why she's staring and such, feel free to give me tips please.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Come again? Do you mean if i looked at her eyes while she's staring at me? Sometimes, i don't have to stare at her but i could tell when she's staring because i use the corner of my eye to see if she's looking at me. I could tell because i see her head turn to my direction and it stays like that for 4-5 seconds. Sometimes i'd look over and see her staring while she's working. I thought maybe she's checking to see how many times i'm staring at her or if i'm just staring.

I took a different route by walking and pretending that i don't see her. I walk by her and not look at her. I use the corner of my eye and i see her turning her head looking at me. She'll look away until i look back at her, or she'll look away but only after 4-5 seconds.
 

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Long looks at distance and almost ignore at close up is very comon with girls that you dont know to well (usaly not older women : 30+ )

If someone have any thoughts behind this comonly behavior i would like to hear it.

If you talk to her about anything, preferably her and get to know her better she will keep the eye contact at close range too.

Btw a funny thing to do when you catch her gazing at you is to do some old school flirting Smile and nod =)

Damn i goto run, i will finish this post later.
 

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PowerUp said:
Long looks at distance and almost ignore at close up is very comon with girls that you dont know to well (usaly not older women : 30+ )

If someone have any thoughts behind this comonly behavior i would like to hear it.

If you talk to her about anything, preferably her and get to know her better she will keep the eye contact at close range too.

Btw a funny thing to do when you catch her gazing at you is to do some old school flirting Smile and nod =)

Damn i goto run, i will finish this post later.
How is it common? Does that mean they're not interested or attracted to me?
What do the smile and nod do? Will that show her that i'm interested or what? I do the smile and nod at girls all the time while they're staring and smiling at me, never got any result back..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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