"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls aren't interested in me

armstrong

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tsmith2334 said:
I feel the same way you do. A decent portion of the time, I feel like girls just really aren't that interested in me. I have attractive facial features, but I don't know if I always give off the correct vibes.

What's worse (this is something I DEFINATELY have to work on) is that I can get goodl-ooking females interested in and attracted to me for a short period of time ( a day, a week, two weeks) but I can't maintain that attraction level and escalate properly.

If I can learn those techniques (and overcome my fears of rejection and being inferior) I'm set.
I'm in the exact same boat you are and would appreciate hearing the solution to this!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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