Girls are waiting for you to ask for their numbers.

[PRMoon]

I've been laying down game on one of the girls at my job for the better part of three weeks now. Since her department is grinding out now with the seasonal change, and I'm usually off the days she works, I haven't gotten to spend that much time with her. Anyway today I decided that I'm going to have one solid private conversation with her and after that I'll either get her number and start dating her or I'll decide it's not something I want to pursue and move on to something else.

So after my lunch break I'm assigned a work station that's basically just me in a room interacting with like a few guest maybe. So I lure her into the station with the promise of a tasty snack and she comes in. Everything goes well with our private talk, I really like some of the responses to my line of questioning and some of the comments she makes. I found myself wanting to hear more and we'd been there alone for like a half hour so she definately qualifies as dating material.

So later on I'm at the front desk going over some of her service checks and she stops by to see how things are going. I joke with her, then give her a hard time. She started to walk away and I realized that my shift was almost over so I call her back and get her number. She says to me "It's about f*ckign time! I thought you were going to punk out and wait till my last day to ask for my number like most guys...lame!!" She give me some more crap about waiting so long and then writes her number, her full name and her department becuase I probably dont' know sh*t about her. I guess I did a good job hiding my true IL because I had her pretty well staked out for over a month.

The point of all this is that there are probably several girls around all of you who are wondering when you're going to ask them for their number. Infact, they're probably more interested in you then you are in them at the time. In all likelyhood this IL will peak at some point and start to drop if you don't act soon and in the right way. In my case, I felt, I had reached the highest IL point possible with this girl. That interest was probably going to drop soon if I didn't act. The only thing I really had to concider was if I was personally interested in seeing this girl on more then a physical basis because that's the direction our intereactions were pointed. All it takes is action gentleman. Decide what you want, understand that you have all the tools to get the job done, and believe in your ability to lay quality game.

 

[mrRuckus]

So later on I'm at the front desk going over some of her service checks and she stops by to see how things are going. I joke with her, then give her a hard time. She started to walk away and I realized that my shift was almost over so I call her back and get her number. She says to me "It's about f*ckign time! I thought you were going to punk out and wait till my last day to ask for my number like most guys...lame!!" She give me some more crap about waiting so long and then writes her number, her full name and her department becuase I probably dont' know sh*t about her. I guess I did a good job hiding my true IL because I had her pretty well staked out for over a month.

You should've told her nevermind after that spectacle.


Am i the only one completely sick of females with egos?

 

[Instinctive]

I dunno about you, but I read that as the girl having 'game' aswell. IMO a girl who can answer back to your playful jokes is a keeper!

 

[PRMoon]

Ruckus - I don't think she did it as an ego thing. Like I said I'd been laying down game on her for quite some time so she kinda knew it was coming. I think the comment was more focused around guys not being men and stepping up. Instead of procrastinating, like alot of guys, I just set up and played out the right moment. Her reaction was more humorus than anything else.

Instictive - Yeah she's definately a keeper. High energey, easy to talk to, and obviously a good sense of humor. The best part is she said it infront of an AFC who's been aimlessly hitting on everygirl in the pool area with no luck...cause he's retarted. She looked at him and shrugged after she gave me her number, it was like the icing on the cake. We're goin out Sunday so I hope this delightful demonor of hers continues.

 

[d9930380]

It's the first test girls carry out. Does he have the balls to ask me out!

Girls do this to guys, they will make you jump through hoops (or test you on how you play the game) and then blatenly give you a score to your face.

Relationships are about power, by testing you this way she's trying to gain the power however she really wants to loose at the game. Just don't let her, make a joke at what she's doing and be prepared to walk away unless she tries harder, not you.

I had a girl once on a date (she asked me out) after I made her laugh say "Oh now I remember why I liked you in the first place". I was taken back by this and felt like saying "Funny because I still can't remember why I liked you" with a smile and "only joking" at the end, but said something AFC like "Oh I'll have to try harder then". Even though it worked out it was still the wrong thing to say, why should I work hard to impress her. Bringing her down a notch or two would have been better.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Am i the only one completely sick of females with egos?

Not at all my friend.

 

[PRMoon]

It's the first test girls carry out. Does he have the balls to ask me out!

Girls do this to guys, they will make you jump through hoops (or test you on how you play the game) and then blatenly give you a score to your face.

Relationships are about power, by testing you this way she's trying to gain the power however she really wants to loose at the game. Just don't let her, make a joke at what she's doing and be prepared to walk away unless she tries harder, not you.

I had a girl once on a date (she asked me out) after I made her laugh say "Oh now I remember why I liked you in the first place". I was taken back by this and felt like saying "Funny because I still can't remember why I liked you" with a smile and "only joking" at the end, but said something AFC like "Oh I'll have to try harder then". Even though it worked out it was still the wrong thing to say, why should I work hard to impress her. Bringing her down a notch or two would have been better.

I'm not sure if the situations are the same in this case. I'm not really in a power struggle with this girl because she knows my reputation as a player for the most part. She even calls me "Mr. Popular" because of my ability to manipulate our employers and my manerism with the guests. She could tell I'm attracted to her but doesen't understand why becuase, according to her friend I'm "way out of her league" (even though she's like an 8 in my book). It's not really possilbe for me to give or gain power over her because that's not where I am in my gaming at this point. I only exude power when I'm trying to ONS a girl I just met at a night clur or a bar. With girls I'm trying to date I monitor the conditons and progression of relationship and keep things at a stalemate so she keeps striving but doesn't feel overwhelmed. I know it's complex but honestly this is what works the best when I want to have a relationship. Power in favor of one or the other usually ends indisaster for me so keepingthings more or less equal (though it takes more work on my part) makes us both happy which is what i'm aiming for ultimately.

 

[PRMoon]

What he hell?! How did I miss THAT?!

Okay guys so I feel really dumb now. I just got done talking to this girl on the phone and I found out she's PREGNANT!. Yep you heard me right pregnant. It was kinda funny honestly when she told me because she was like "...uh, do you talk to anyone at work? (of course I don't because I belive in MIND YOUR OWN BUISNESS). Haven't you heard david ask me 'how's the bun' or wonder why I don't life anything or why so many guys are always helping me?" Then...boom "I'm pregnant". Turns out she broke up with her boyfriend four months ago, and two months ago found out she's pregnant. She's not showing and apparently I'm not very observant because I never picked up on any signs....yeah i gotta work on that.

She gave me an opportunity to back out of our date but for some ungoddly reason I still agreed to know. She honestly didn't believe that I didn't know she was pregnant because, apparently, everybody knew. Fortunately she'll be leaving our place of work soon so I have an easy out.

I knew things we're working out a little too well for me. There's another hottie working in the Sig tower who I've had my eye on though...and she's super skinny. Back to the drawing board I suppose.