"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls are using me?

Viking25

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This is what's been happening lately and I need some input from you guys .
2 girls in my life who doing exact same thing! Now..they don't know eachother and just random girls I met. They like to call me up late at nite and first just talk,but then they tell me that they are naked on the bed and think of me...and they are getting off...you know,masturbating and talking dirty., I can feel your d1ck in my wet pvssy kinda dirty! Of course I talk dirty back to them and get them off really easy!:)
Now,they both have boyfriends...they both said they would never cheat on their BF. They both presented themselfs as "good and faithful" girls. Both are christian and maintain that "good girl" image .
Initially what I was getting out of this relationship was my phone game. I was just so bad on the phone with women that I was happy to talk to anyone just for the sake of improving my verbal skills.
But now,I am openly getting used for phone sex and I want to somehow get them to fukk with me in real life.
I have suggested to both of them that we meet,but they repllied with that Bf defence. I tryed to get them out to hang out only at my place....lol.but they didn't bite:D
They both love talking to me...and they love to complain about their BF...like how they don't spend enough time with them,they are not kinky enough in bed...etc.
I am thinking to just cut them off...to tell them that I am not going to be used this way and if she wants to fukk...then she knows how to contact me.They love the attention I am giving them!!!..some maybe I thought they would agree to meet up if I give them the ultimatum. What stops me from doing this? I am afraid to lose that slim chance to fukk them in real life,no more phone sex and practicing my phone game.
So what do you think guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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neobrood

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based on your post...

Your terms: You wanna f*ck em in real life.

Their terms: They only wanna f*ck you in the phone.

They both love talking to me...and they love to complain about their BF...like how they don't spend enough time with them,they are not kinky enough in bed...etc.
pfft... and then they say they don't wanna cheat on BF. that is BS. Don't eat their BS. Have respect for yourself.

If I were you, when it comes to a point where it pisses me off already, I WOULD CUT OFF THE PHONE SEX until they decide to agree to my terms of "f*ckin em in real life".

Try attracting other girls too. Make those phone sex partners of yours JEALOUS.

Don't get attatched to them. If you do, you will suffer the consequences of your stupidity. :D
 

FratAndDiddy

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you let them know what you wanted, but they are happy with listening to your voice while they screw themselves with father dildo.
just cut em off. you told them what you wanted and hold out till you get it.
 

BGMan

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Yes, they are using you.

If they call you late at night, let them talk to your answering machine. They shouldn't be doing that ANYWAY.

Drop 'em like hot potatoes and don't talk to them anymore.

BGMan
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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