Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girls are taller than me.

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Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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killbill said:
Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
Sure I would if she's thin and has a pretty face, if she has long legs (tall girls normally do), it's all good baby!:D

But...
If she's above 5'11, that's just too freakish for me, I want my girl to be feminine, not some giant freak.
Again, I'm 5'9, maybe the perception of what's "freakish" depends on our own height...:confused: :whistle:
 

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Le Parisien said:
Again, I'm 5'9, maybe the perception of what's "freakish" depends on our own height...:confused: :whistle:
No.. Any chick taller than 6'2" is just a freak. Doesn't matter what height you are.
 

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killbill said:
Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
are you sure it wasn't a wnba locker room?;)

2-3 inch diference at most, anymore than that and I won't be attracted
 

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I'm 6'5", so I'd have to say there is no way I'd date an amazon taller than myself. I used to hang with a girl that was 6'2", and that was great (former NCAA BB player...go figure).
Nice thing about tall thin chicks is that over time they probably won't turn into a rolling tub of lard, it's just not in their genetic disposition...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We all are about the same height when we are horizontal. :)

As long as you aren't a midget in comparison no one cares if the women is taller. They all wear huge heels these days anyway.
 

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playboy_supreme said:
were they wearing heels?

nope just shoes. there seems to be alot of them where I live.
 

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They arent so tall when they are on their knees.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're full of crap. There isn't a place on earth where half the women are taller than 6'1. Hell, there isn't a place where half the women are taller than 5'10.
 

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make em get **** off high shelves for u and **** homie :up:
 
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