"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls are taller than me.

killbill

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Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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killbill said:
Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
Sure I would if she's thin and has a pretty face, if she has long legs (tall girls normally do), it's all good baby!:D

But...
If she's above 5'11, that's just too freakish for me, I want my girl to be feminine, not some giant freak.
Again, I'm 5'9, maybe the perception of what's "freakish" depends on our own height...:confused: :whistle:
 

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Le Parisien said:
Again, I'm 5'9, maybe the perception of what's "freakish" depends on our own height...:confused: :whistle:
No.. Any chick taller than 6'2" is just a freak. Doesn't matter what height you are.
 

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killbill said:
Well today I went to the store to buy groceries. And when I seen hot chicks I would smile at them. But I noticed that half of these chicks were taller that me. By the way im 6 foot 1 and these chicks are probbly like 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I was wondering, would you date a chick if she was taller than you?
are you sure it wasn't a wnba locker room?;)

2-3 inch diference at most, anymore than that and I won't be attracted
 

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I'm 6'5", so I'd have to say there is no way I'd date an amazon taller than myself. I used to hang with a girl that was 6'2", and that was great (former NCAA BB player...go figure).
Nice thing about tall thin chicks is that over time they probably won't turn into a rolling tub of lard, it's just not in their genetic disposition...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We all are about the same height when we are horizontal. :)

As long as you aren't a midget in comparison no one cares if the women is taller. They all wear huge heels these days anyway.
 

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playboy_supreme said:
were they wearing heels?

nope just shoes. there seems to be alot of them where I live.
 

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They arent so tall when they are on their knees.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're full of crap. There isn't a place on earth where half the women are taller than 6'1. Hell, there isn't a place where half the women are taller than 5'10.
 

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make em get **** off high shelves for u and **** homie :up:
 
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