"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls are such retards.

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It doesn't make sense, ive been an AFC for as long as i can live but recently ive aquired the attitude of 'fvck em all those stupid *****ez can die// i hate em all'

LOL, so on the bus ive stopped being social and this lass(hb9.5) that used to walk all over me and make me do stuff for her (yep she manipulated me... i belive she fancied me once but when she found out i was an afc, lost all attraction 2wards me and USED me) anyways there i was n i go "YO [Name] come sit here!!" n she goes "no he cant".. normally i would back down but i just had an argument wiv her about who owns the bus LOL . anyways she then said "awwwwww uve come out of ur shell..... gimme a hug" n i was like "no fvck off u stupid b'itch" n she hugged me then she later bit me 4 sum reason and tried knicking my walkman.

WOW... i hardly talked to this lass for ages n now she doin all this, n i hate her now.

aFter bus ride i felt well good and super confident.

Anyways this is wot pi$$ed me off,

next day on bus shes like 'hey' n was acting like an afc herself.
i reverted back to an afc n she ignored me l8er.

Now 4 my question, when she suprises u and acts afcish, and you dont know what to do? What do you do? it caught me of guard this and i just shyly said hi n idont want this 2 happen again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are your own man.
Confident, powerful, stick to the new you. She kinda appreciated your change, I "suspect", so just be your imporved self, never go back to AFC'ism. Just my 2 cents, some masters could tell you otherwise though.
 

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act the same way. be a ****ing man.
and don't became a jerk yo.

You don't NEED her attention but you don't just be like '**** off' if you have no reason to. Like this girl tried to make the person sitting with her sit with me on the bus and I said " **** you *****." and that's fine. And then she came up and hugged me from behind later yo. you know what I'm saying?
for instance you do it when it's appropiate. Like I only talk when I have something to say, or when it's a girl I need to talk to. besides I just do my own thing. It's how I roll.

See but the reason you reverted back to AFCdom is because you're not fully transformed in the mindset yo. Practice it and it takes time man. It ain't no one night stand.

Tenechiwa *****es.

:cheer:
 

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thanks for the input guys, i just feel really confused at the moment.
How come girls respond so well to down right abuse?
it doesn't make sense. If a guy said to me "fvck off u queer" i would think hes an ******* and hate him. Do this to a girl and they act all 'afc-ish' on you.
Personally i think women are messed up, attraction should be based on looks LOL then i wud b KING OF DATING :D (lol ok im not a model but i see myself as reasonably attractive 8/10 maybe)
 

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You're change was temporary. The desire to talk to her and impress her is making you return to you're AFC ways. When you TRULY stop giving a **** about her, only then you're afc nature will go away. You have to take her of the pedestral and start flirtin with other girls
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget her, and look for new girls. You gave in because she was acting afcish so you did too. Because if a guy acts pissed off at you, you act the same. If the guy acts nice to you, you act the same. Men and Women are NOT the same. When you did wat u did, you won her over, dont give in, SHE WAS KIND OF TESTING YOU to see if you would return to an afc.
 

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it all comes down to basic psychology, the most basic level being that the female wants to mate with the strongest male, in order to have the strongest offspring. a male that acts like a jerk and doesn't kiss up to girls sends the message that he doesn't need any one girl, he has lots. This equats the male with dominance in her eyes.

This works both ways, girls that act AFCish turn off guys because we have the same instinct, mate with the strongest and most beautiful females.
 
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