"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls are like apples

noodle

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a friend of mine sent me this the other day, i looked at it and thought..."hey! thats kinda like what getting girls is all about!" Just thought i would share it with you.

----------------Girls-----
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----(hot ones)
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-(AFC Behaviour)
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-(Ugly Girls)
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think(This part down doesn't make sense)
something wrong with them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top----(what a real DJ does)

So what does this thing mean?

Go out and climb an apple tree and you'll be a DJ...NO!

It means for all you AFC guys to stop taking the easy way out and getting the ugly girls. But to start putting some effort into it, and climbing to the top of the tree to get the hot chicks you CAN and WILL GET, don't let fear overcome you and stop you from taking whats yours!

Good luck boys :up:
"remeber, dont be scared, there is nothing to be scared of"

-Noodle
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Babnik

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Ah... wrong. Don't try any harder. In fact, don't try at all. Put no effort in it.

INSTEAD, increase self esteem and STOP:

1. Being intimidated by hot girls.
2. Treating hot girls differently from ugly girls.
 

sexxyback

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that's what mediocre girls who think they are actually hot girls tell themselves to make them feel better about why ugly but slutty girls seem to get all the guys. it has nothing to do with afc/dj behavior.
 
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