"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls are just NOT to be trusted omfg caught the 'abused' 'religious' 'good' girl

TheGambino

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Everyone who red my posts about this abused chick who I was chasing and didnt want to meet up with me. We had phone calls for hours like you guys know. we made out once, i flaked once and after that she declined my date offers (like 10times total) coz of religious reasons she claimed, my thoughts weren't the same as hers and she can't go out in the evening coz of her parents lol. I kept talking with her back and forth but I nexted her since nothing was coming out of it, some of you know

An hour ago I figured to grab a beer with my buddy and spin some plates in a cafe near our village. Guess what shes there with a friend. When I came in a old friend of mine told about her that she approached him and was dancing like a slut all afternoon there.

She was dancing in the middle of the cafe like a slut shaking her ass and a fvking idiot guy was with her, not sure if they were kissing or dancing or anything.

Just to let you know, some of the replies i got told me don't trust her she will f*ck around with the first agressive guy she likes and she'll end up as a slut soon or later. I thought I found a trustful respectful chick but this girl is outta control LOL she lied about basically everything related to dating and going out. :crackup: guys again again again: judge by actions never on words its so true, and indeed i had to find out the hard way. you guys were so right.

So in the cafe there was a girl i know that i hooked up with a year ago and lost contact, we were talking in front of her for 30mins and she used kino and even kissed my cheek and hugged me.

She was going out and in of the cafe constantly with her friend talking and stuff and acted nervous when I was around with that girl. I ignored her, didn't look at her and enjoyed my time with the chick I number closed again and left the cafe.

im shocked, she goes to church and blabla lmfao
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As the old maxim goes:

Believe HALF of what you see and NONE of what you hear.

Use this nugget of knowledge you have acquired and apply it going forward with EVERY girl you meet. I'm not advocating paranoia but don't take anybody for their word, male or female.
 
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