"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls Are Gross

Chosen1

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Before you all start saying I'm immature, let me explain my reasoning. I live in a house with two grown black women, now my little sister leaves her bloody drawers everywhere. I mean everywhere in the living room, the bathrooms my moms room, the kitchen, wherever. And then she talks about her private medical history with everybody.

My moms says you need to keep that **** to yourself, Then she say oh the guy asked me about it. Then on top of that she tells guys about her sexual life. Which is always very disgusting. As if that isn't bad enough I go to work and these two (black) chicks, start talking about when babies start throwing up and similac. I have very little knowledge of that ****. Then this one chick was telling my mom that everytime she goes to the bathroom I go to the bathroom. She said he probably is going to get my scent. Get her scent what the hell does that mean "get her scent". Needless to say I got pissed off. I don't know what it is but the women I live around are just disgusting.I forgot to mention that I notice this mainly with black chicks. I never heard a whithe chick say anthing like this, except once. I still love women, and think they are alright but, keep that bulls.hit out of my ear.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Distant Light

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lol you haven't been around alot of girls then. If you just hanging out with a group of girls that are just your friends, you will hear some sh!t. Just the other day I was just hanging out with my dyke friend and 2, I guess bi girls and there talking about stuff you would in particular would consider nasty. (I don't mind it) One of the bi girls was saying how many lesbians tried to talk to her and the other one was telling the bi girl how this other dyke uses a strap on.

Another time one of my other girl friend was telling me she went by a girls house seen alot of ky jelly and condoms laying around. Girls always accusing each other for farting.

You have to realize that it is all normal, girls act just like a group of guys except there content is different. You have to realize we are all human women aren't some kind of object there human just like every man and they will be saying stuff that you probably won't like but thats how it is.

LOL bloody draws all over the house.
 

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I am beginning to respect this forum less and less. If women are so gross, go fvck men. Nobody has time for your misogynistic, pseudo-rascist bullsh!t. Threads like this is why this forum is 95% useless. Fvcking idiot.

Btw, good reply DistantLight, you have good patience my friend.



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Ace of Flames

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Regardless of Rex Man's overreaction, those women in particular that you describe are pretty nasty. I don't even leave my clothes all over the house, nor does anyone I know, guy or girl. If these black women are the typical stereotype "ghettofied" women that they seem to be, then I totally agree with you. Nasty. I wouldn't touch that kind of woman with a 10 foot-pole.

"Get her scent"? Wtf, I dunno about that one dude.

Overall, I say you need to meet and surround yourself with better people. Sounds like you live and work in crappy environments.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Regardless of Rex Man's overreaction, those women in particular that you describe are pretty nasty. I don't even leave my clothes all over the house, nor does anyone I know, guy or girl. If these black women are the typical stereotype "ghettofied" women that they seem to be, then I totally agree with you. Nasty. I wouldn't touch that kind of woman with a 10 foot-pole.

"Get her scent"? Wtf, I dunno about that one dude.

Overall, I say you need to meet and surround yourself with better people. Sounds like you live and work in crappy environments.
Yeah I do live in a crappy enviroment. What rexman didn't get is I was kind of joking, being immature. Yes, these women do act like this but, they are not as cute as everyone thinks they are. I do also need to surround myself with better people hopefully I'll do that while I'm in the military. My point being that everybody is disgusting to some degree but sometimes with the examples above I don't get it and it is totally unexpected or unnessary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tazman

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lol, I love how there is an emphasis placed on the the fact that they're not just nasty chicks, but "black" nasty chicks. Nasty knows no color, trust me.
 
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