"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls are being nice but then become b*tches!

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We meet, she is nice, smily, etc. She is not walking over me and I'm not walking over her. It goes well. Then, I want to show more dominance so I walk over her and become a jerk - she suddenly becomes a b*tch because she won't let me treat her like she is below me (at least now THAT low).

So, even if a girl is nice to you, should you walk over her anyway? Many girls just suddenly become b8tches when you try to bring them down.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When you are joking with a girl make sure the joke is very obvious. I suggest using sarcasm mostly. Example:

Girl: "I love this outfit it's uber cool."

You: "Oh yea, uber cool alright..."

Then you roll your eyes or something of that nature with a smile.

P.S. If they girl really uses the word "Uber" don't even bother with her. Please.
 
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Idiot!

Do I smack my dog on the head when it's already showing me respect and hasn't done anything wrong?

Why would I go tell a girl to "F OFF" if I already have her where I want her?

Hitch your an idiot. Clearly your not getting the just of the topic poster, and please explain to me why you would ditch a girl for saying uber? Oh wait! Your just TRYING to make yourself look good. Sorry, my bad!
 
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Wouldn't insulting me be a form of you trying to make yourself look better than me?

Anyways, I honestly don't care what you have to say and flirting with a jerky attitude is not at all a bad thing as long as it's done correctly.

Women are attracted to the the bads guys.
Bad guys are normally overconfident jerks.
Jerk gets laid. Uh oh did I just put something together? Gosh I'm such an idiot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Raikojo17 said:
no, only if they need walking on should u walk on them. if they respect u, then dont.
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thats the way i see it, if shes nice why you gotta walk all over her?
 
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Ummm.... don't be a jerk, and don't tolerate disrespect. Why the hell are you trying to walk over them? Nobody wants that.

Jerks don't get laid. You don't punch a girl in the face and get laid. Confident guys who don't give a sh!t get laid.
 
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I didn't mean a true jerk not those **** heads everyone hates, but a guy that has a slight bit of ****iness and a bit of niceness to him. You really have to be in the middle, honestly, you can't be an extreme to either side.
 
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