Girls are AFC's too

[bishopdonjuan]

I know this will sound real arrogant but its seriously something I have a problem with. I've always been considered a pretty boy, I keep myself up, work out all the time, model, and have been the guy all the girls talked about getting with. While this is obviously good for the attraction of these girls, I find a stricking pattern on a large majority of the girls that I end up giving attention to. Once I start talking to them they will oftentimes act like AFC males. I have had extremely fine women simply give no chase once I start talking to them, wanting to be available too much, complimenting me every second, thinking that I can never do anything wrong (evidenced by how much bull**** I can get away with without even trying to cover it up), and even talking about marrying and the like when I've only known them for a minute.

Obviously, I could just write off these girls, but oftentimes they are girls that I enjoy, but simply get tired of because i'm doing all the pushing in the challenge game and they just pull forever. Does anyone else have this same type of experience, and have you found a conclusion to it all?

 

[echo1212]

Oh yeah I've had that problem too. Ya just get bored with the lack of any challenge or mystery. You know you can walk all over them so you dont respect them. And that is a HUGE key to any long lasting relationship-R.E.S.P.E.C.T

 

[Synthesis]

Awww, you poor poor guys! Life is so difficult for you. You have my most sincere condolences.

But seriously now, if you're really looking for more of a challenge, just go talk to 10 different women, whichever one gives you the b*tchiest, most standoffish attitude, there's your target. Focus your game on her.

Also try celebrities. (I'm not joking.) Perhaps they'll put up more resistance than a normal girl.

 

[Cheiradawg]

Cry me a river
Build A Bridge
cross back over to the land of reality

wtf are you talking about. This can't be 100% true. There is always a woman you can't have. Try going after Britney Spears if you need a chalange.

 

[bonjove]

Originally posted by Cheiradawg
Try going after Britney Spears if you need a chalange.

Talk about extreme AFCness....

A japanese buisness sure tried. Look what happened to him.

http://www.grokfoo.com/?itemid=593&catid=5

 

[WaterTiger]

Yes...yes it's true. Being an AFC is my worst fault! (sigh) I gotta remember to be mean and b!tchy.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

homey - r u the only available man in town ? what is your population ? do u have more cows than people in town - if i was there giving u competition you'd be a lonely boy!!!

 

[bishopdonjuan]

Naw man. I'm from Detroit so the population is one million. Not at all a ****y thing, and i didn't say I didn't have competition, just pointing out an observation of mine that seems to happen often

 

[iqqi]

it does happen. whatever problems men have, so do women. i personally am glad that this dude posted on here because a lot of you seem to think that women have it made, with no issues and no problems. think again, they have the same ones as you. the men they actually want (sorry for any egos i may have stepped over), are either unavailable, wh0res, b!tches, or easy. sound familiar?

detroit in da hizouse!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

sorry iqqi but terms like Wh@re's and biatches solely apply to the famale species - men cannot b these -- now there r men who r Wh@remongers or pimps or mac daddies

call a man a biatch and he'l probably b in your mouth like a dentist!!!

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
sorry iqqi but terms like Wh@re's and biatches solely apply to the famale species - men cannot b these -- now there r men who r Wh@remongers or pimps or mac daddies

call a man a biatch and he'l probably b in your mouth like a dentist!!!

whatever b!tch

 

[TTAG]

Originally posted by bishopdonjuan
Once I start talking to them they will oftentimes act like AFC males. I have had extremely fine women simply give no chase once I start talking to them, wanting to be available too much, complimenting me every second, thinking that I can never do anything wrong (evidenced by how much bull**** I can get away with without even trying to cover it up), and even talking about marrying and the like when I've only known them for a minute.

Obviously, I could just write off these girls, but oftentimes they are girls that I enjoy, but simply get tired of because i'm doing all the pushing in the challenge game and they just pull forever. Does anyone else have this same type of experience, and have you found a conclusion to it all?

hell yeah! this has definitely happened to me several times. and it is the most disgusting and off-putting experience ever!

when i was at the top of my game (slowed down a bit now), i had girls doing ridiculous things for me, starting with being available, then dinners/movies paid for me, sex anytime anywhere, have her have sex with my friends! (you gotta share). what a ho!

funny stories? i even had one girl tell me she was sorry and that she needed to improve, when i cheated on her! like WTF?

another time, i tell this virgin girl sorry, im sorry that i ever met her and have to put up with her. next night she is at my place waiting for me, ready to fvck. she becomes booty call #3 or whatever.

i now know why i had troubles with the ex i once loved.

AFC traits in guys or girls are revolting! disgusting! sickening!

 

[Eric Smith]

Also try celebrities. (I'm not joking.) Perhaps they'll put up more resistance than a normal girl.

Celebrities with average joes aren't that rare. Lenny Kravitz, a relatively unknown, hooked up with Lisa Bonet in the late 80s, who at the time was considered a sex symbol. Look at the guy who married Shannon Elizabeth. He is basically a slob and he's banging one of the hottest celebrities out there. Yet he is basically unknown. Two examples of DJs who got the girls of high status.

Regarding the topic, of course women are AFCs too. If a woman was a DJ, she would constantly be providing challenges until she had you around her finger. However most women's b-shields can be cracked in 1-2 minutes in the presence of a real DJ. So it definitely happens. Remember "A" means average. Most girls' dating tactics and techniques are definitely average; nothing outstanding about it.