"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls are a dime-a-dozen... in high-school.

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Lets just get straight it shall we?

-I'm a junior into this freshman girl [lets call Sarah] (yeah yeah), shes been giving me some signs that shes into me and I've failed to act on them.
-Now her sister's best friend [lets call Jenny] (a junior) has been hanging out with me more. As a matter of fact its almost as if shes interested in me, and I'm not opposed to it because shes pretty good looking.
-The freshmans sister [lets call Jessy] (a junior) has been getting to know me more and I'm also taking an interest in her.

Bottom line I'm into three good looking girls (who are to some degree interested into me) and I don't know how to go about this. They are all friends/sisters -whatever their relationship is- and are all pretty close. The way I see it I can probably successfully go with one of them, because going out with one after the other and other would probably not go so good, and I don't want to go my senior year with that [stigma] on my shoulders.

Who should I go for? Should I DJ the hell outta all three of them? Is it possible to go for all three?

Ultimately I want to be friends with benefits with one of them. I don't even know if I'm looking for a serious relationship... I guess I'm just looking for some fun [as we all are], if you get me. :rockon: :rock:

Sarah: Easiest? Maybe because shes a freshman.
Jenny: Proabably the most experienced.
Jessy: Has the best body of them all.

-Trainee
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You want a FB, but what will probably happen is an LTR. Don't push for a FB too hard or it'll blow up in your face. I'd say go fo Jessy first 'cause she's the hottest.
 
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Is there any reason you should not mack them all? Seriously, unless you start a LTR with any of them soon there is nothing to stop you from getting with all of them.
 
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man u shouldn't care u got a chance to score with all 3, go for it be a pimp
 
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The title of the thread is 'Girls are a dime-a-dozen... in high-school.' and the subtitle should be 'but attractive girls are a different story. '. Well that's how it's like at my school. Only a minority have the looks and can string together an intelligible sentence. Pity.

I agree with what slingshadow said on the most part, whichever girl you choose, it's gonna be a LTR. Because these girls are so close to each other, you won't be able to mack them successfully unless you have extreme skills, and even then, you are going to get the 'spineless player' reputation.

My best advice is to choose the girl that you like best overall. Don't go for Sarah just because she's the easiest; the extra work you put in may pay off down the line.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The title of the thread is 'Girls are a dime-a-dozen... in high-school.' and the subtitle should be 'but attractive girls are a different story. '"

Haha, that was great.
 
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Don't worry about the stigma of being a player.

Girls find that attractive even if they tell you the complete opposite.

You're in highschool. Go with them all if you don't want a LTR, just make sure there is time between each so you're not known as a cheater - that is bad.
 
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d9930380 said:
Don't worry about the stigma of being a player.

Girls find that attractive even if they tell you the complete opposite.

You're in highschool. Go with them all if you don't want a LTR, just make sure there is time between each so you're not known as a cheater - that is bad.
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He's right.
It isn't "stigma" its energy!

Now I'm saying not roll through all life like this, and womanize just to be "cool." Cause it ain't. Being a man into the direction of spirit, freedom, heart is cool. Got his sh!t goin for him, and women naturally love it... thats cool. Not just tryin to land chicks to "be cool"... sh!t is retarded.

Anyways... back to the thread. The time thing... eh! If your not exclusive with any of them... then how can it be cheating. Go w. the moment, and when the repurcussions of living that way come back around... accept them, and keep rolling. Now I'm not saying let these chicks get pissed over you, if you hook up w. them all... I'm saying... be who you are. Control the frame. Theres nothing wrong w. being w. all 3 of them. And if they think that way... thats their fault. You genuinely enjoy all 3 of them, and are attracted to them. So its not like your playing them... your being authentic. Control the frame... and keep that vibe expressing your behaivor. What other choice will they have, but to respond to such a mindset.

Be cool... be natural... and enjoy. Alls G' if your G'.

Keep it Real,
-DarkLight-
 
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