"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ Hawtness

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Uh-Oh!

I don't know about you, but this is such a big turn on when a hawt girl approaches you, and wants to know "what's up."

Trust me, when a girl does this, I let her know what's up (you know what I'm talking about).

Anyway, this HB9.5 approached me, and let me know that I was cute, or w/e, and she wanted to get to know me better.

I immediately started running game (obv.~), and this chick was crazy over me.

Let me not get into details, cuz this gets kinda sexual :crackup: but uh, my little friend had a lot of fun with the humpety-hump.

How do you feel about girls approaching j00? Also, has one done it recently? If so, share your story.

<3 at da ladies
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Hawtness

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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
I would love a girl to approach me. It makes my job so much easier.
Yes dude, if all girls were like this, we would be so much happier, ya know?
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I seriously doubt a HB9.5 approached you cause she wanted to know "what's up."

It's the guys job to pick up the girl. Let's not even talk about girls trying to pick up guys. It usually doesn't happen. Guys thinking that one day a hot girl is gonna walk up to them are very mistaken AFC's. (Unless she is drunk.) A hot girl may, however, walk up to you in a club. But you should always be on the offensive.

Forget about girls picking you up. Practice cold pick-ups. Everyday.
Dude, I've had enough "practice" on approaching a girl. I don't call it a cold approach because I like to heat things up (kino rocks).

Girls that are aggressive, are such a freaking turn on. Yes, it is hard to believe that girls approach guys, but some do. Some ARE confident in themselves, and they know what they want (me).

It is hard to believe (I was shocked when she did this, it never happened to me before), but nonetheless, I got what I want anyway cuz:

1.) If she didn't approach me, I would have approached her. =\
 

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i believe deep down in my stomach any girl approaching you is no good.....except for a ONS. Seriously, i'm man.....i like punching things, i like being an a-hole (sometimes), I like lifting lots of weights, and I like to be in control of a girl. When a girl approaches me i don't feel in control. I want the upper hand, to know I bagged this chick using my own manliness, charm , and pure balls.....cold approaches EVERYDAY, thats how you do it

And Giggalo is right....that dude skimmed through the story way to fast for it to be true, i'm calling him out.....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Calling me out?

I don't need to get into specifics because it's really none of your business.

Thefonz, you would be considered as "a jerk", not as a man. Lifting weights barely does anything for you, you need to have confidence and not be scared of your sexuality in order to be a man.

Read Pook's thread to find out more on how to be a man, although this should be pretty obvious.

Nonetheless, have a nice day. :down:
 

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I don't know what planet you guys are on but I get approach all the time. Granted they're not all hot girls coming at me but I get them. Lol just earlier today some girl Imed me out of the blue, that's like 600 miles away. She said she heard from a friend that I was handsome and wanted to know me. The one thing I would doubt happened to Hawtness was that it was a cold approach.

Probably it's a place you visit often or often enough to where she have seen you before and notice you. Might seem like a cold approach to you cause you haven't seen her before but she might of notice you. If you're occupied you probably wouldn't have never notice her.

It is a turn on, but my defensive walls goes up immediately. I know how girls feel when they get hit on at the clubs. Sometimes it's some hot girls wanting me to hook up with their less than hot friends, or something like trying to get me to buy a drink.

About 90% of the girls i've been dating in the past 3 years has approached me first. However they have all been from places where I visit often.
 

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She said she's seen me before, but yeah I was pretty occupied. Nonetheless, I got what I wanted.

Girls approach a lot more during college (at least from what I've heard). I can't wait. :D
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I seriously doubt a HB9.5 approached you cause she wanted to know "what's up."

It's the guys job to pick up the girl. Let's not even talk about girls trying to pick up guys. It usually doesn't happen. Guys thinking that one day a hot girl is gonna walk up to them are very mistaken AFC's. (Unless she is drunk.) A hot girl may, however, walk up to you in a club. But you should always be on the offensive.

Forget about girls picking you up. Practice cold pick-ups. Everyday.
Sometimes the 9.5s will approach men they find attractive, since (1) most guys are too chicken-sh!t to approach her and (2) the ones who DO are usually jackazzes.

Be the exception. Initiate.

Either way, the sex is good. A lot of the women I've been with have approached me first...usually after some eye contact or something. But I haven't been with any true hot-hotties. :p
 

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Quote : SuperGigaloDJ
It's the guys job to pick up the girl. Let's not even talk about girls trying to pick up guys. It usually doesn't happen. Guys thinking that one day a hot girl is gonna walk up to them are very mistaken AFC's. (Unless she is drunk.) A hot girl may, however, walk up to you in a club. But you should always be on the offensive.

Forget about girls picking you up. Practice cold pick-ups. Everyday.


preach it brother , preach it :)


Quote - DJ Hawtness
Dude, I've had enough "practice" on approaching a girl. I don't call it a cold approach because I like to heat things up (kino rocks).


hahaha.... " i don't call it a cold approach " you made a funny

Quote - thefonz
i believe deep down in my stomach any girl approaching you is no good.....except for a ONS. Seriously, i'm man.....i like punching things, i like being an a-hole (sometimes), I like lifting lots of weights, and I like to be in control of a girl. When a girl approaches me i don't feel in control. I want the upper hand, to know I bagged this chick using my own manliness, charm , and pure balls.....cold approaches EVERYDAY, thats how you do it


i agree with your stomach there fonz in my experience chicks that do approaches are h0es and more often than not have serious problems

they are out of balance with their true nature, the nature of a women is to be subservient not dominant

alcohol and drugs is ofcourse the exception to this as it changes people and gives them confidence in most cases

question time for the thread starter

Quote - DJ Hawtness
Yes, it is hard to believe that girls approach guys, but some do. Some ARE confident in themselves, and they know what they want (me).

It is hard to believe (I was shocked when she did this, it never happened to me before)


never happened to you before eh ?

but then

Quote - DJ Hawtness
I don't know what planet you guys are on but I get approach all the time. Granted they're not all hot girls coming at me but I get them


Earth.... you should come visit us some time :)

and yes hippo's will try and approach me at the zoo if i throw bread near them

Quote - DJ Hawtness
Lol just earlier today some girl Imed me out of the blue, that's like 600 miles away. She said she heard from a friend that I was handsome and wanted to know me. The one thing I would doubt happened to Hawtness was that it was a cold approach.


only 600 miles away ? damn you got it on lock down for sure

you doubt it was a cold approach ? i am not following you

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Probably it's a place you visit often or often enough to where she have seen you before and notice you. Might seem like a cold approach to you cause you haven't seen her before but she might of notice you. If you're occupied you probably wouldn't have never notice her.


someone translate that for me please ?

Quote - DJ Hawtness
It is a turn on, but my defensive walls goes up immediately. I know how girls feel when they get hit on at the clubs. Sometimes it's some hot girls wanting me to hook up with their less than hot friends, or something like trying to get me to buy a drink.

About 90% of the girls i've been dating in the past 3 years has approached me first. However they have all been from places where I visit often.


the award for the funniest poster goes to

but it all comes down to THIS

Quote - DJ Hawtness
Girls approach a lot more during college (at least from what I've heard). I can't wait.


HOW OLD ARE YOU ?????

HOW OLD WAS THE GIRL IN YOUR STORY MR DJ ?????

out of interest you not in college but you claim to be all up in the clubs next to the alcohol

i am in Australia and the rules are different here so can an american please tell me if it is possible for a young kid to be up in all the clubs getting hit on ?


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

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“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

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“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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