"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well..when you always here how hot you are from many girls, i'd say that's pretty good indication that you're good looking to many girls. At least that's where my feedback comes from.

You often never hear it directly unless they're drunk. Usually through a friend or someone knowing them.

One girl, was crazy ..in a resteraunt. I heard this "He's really hot, i want to fukk him" and she's staring me right in the eyes while saying it. Needless to say, was a nice boost to my ego.

I just got called a stuck up SOB today LOL! I must be doing my job as a DJ ..aye? I'm done Djing so to speak. Something i learned today, it all stems from body language and then everything comes naturally. If you have to think about it, you're fighting an uphill battle, really with just yourself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tmpgstx said:
Well..when you always here how hot you are from many girls, i'd say that's pretty good indication that you're good looking to many girls. At least that's where my feedback comes from.

You often never hear it directly unless they're drunk. Usually through a friend or someone knowing them.

One girl, was crazy ..in a resteraunt. I heard this "He's really hot, i want to fukk him" and she's staring me right in the eyes while saying it. Needless to say, was a nice boost to my ego.

I just got called a stuck up SOB today LOL! I must be doing my job as a DJ ..aye? I'm done Djing so to speak. Something i learned today, it all stems from body language and then everything comes naturally. If you have to think about it, you're fighting an uphill battle, really with just yourself.
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No offence but in your last post you say you never approach because of your great fear of rejection - not much of a DJ in my eyes??! Some guys who are great looking never get anywhere cos they are shy or can't approach. You're right about girls when they are drunk - but they also get beer/alcohol goggles plus alcohol can get a girl very horny.

My last gfriend approached me after we'd had eye contact - walked up to me on the dancefloor asked me a question & walked off. I checked her out a few other times but she was with a guy (a gay guy i found out later) so i left it, she came back over, we went off to chat and it all went from there.

Generally the very hottest women won't approach though but like everyone says it's all in the eye contact, etc... & yeh the fugly girls who are too keen are f**kin annoying! I reckon it puts you into a womens shoes with all the losers they have approaching them being letchy, clingy & annoying
 
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