"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls Approaching Guys

tmpgstx

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Well..when you always here how hot you are from many girls, i'd say that's pretty good indication that you're good looking to many girls. At least that's where my feedback comes from.

You often never hear it directly unless they're drunk. Usually through a friend or someone knowing them.

One girl, was crazy ..in a resteraunt. I heard this "He's really hot, i want to fukk him" and she's staring me right in the eyes while saying it. Needless to say, was a nice boost to my ego.

I just got called a stuck up SOB today LOL! I must be doing my job as a DJ ..aye? I'm done Djing so to speak. Something i learned today, it all stems from body language and then everything comes naturally. If you have to think about it, you're fighting an uphill battle, really with just yourself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tmpgstx said:
Well..when you always here how hot you are from many girls, i'd say that's pretty good indication that you're good looking to many girls. At least that's where my feedback comes from.

You often never hear it directly unless they're drunk. Usually through a friend or someone knowing them.

One girl, was crazy ..in a resteraunt. I heard this "He's really hot, i want to fukk him" and she's staring me right in the eyes while saying it. Needless to say, was a nice boost to my ego.

I just got called a stuck up SOB today LOL! I must be doing my job as a DJ ..aye? I'm done Djing so to speak. Something i learned today, it all stems from body language and then everything comes naturally. If you have to think about it, you're fighting an uphill battle, really with just yourself.
No offence but in your last post you say you never approach because of your great fear of rejection - not much of a DJ in my eyes??! Some guys who are great looking never get anywhere cos they are shy or can't approach. You're right about girls when they are drunk - but they also get beer/alcohol goggles plus alcohol can get a girl very horny.

My last gfriend approached me after we'd had eye contact - walked up to me on the dancefloor asked me a question & walked off. I checked her out a few other times but she was with a guy (a gay guy i found out later) so i left it, she came back over, we went off to chat and it all went from there.

Generally the very hottest women won't approach though but like everyone says it's all in the eye contact, etc... & yeh the fugly girls who are too keen are f**kin annoying! I reckon it puts you into a womens shoes with all the losers they have approaching them being letchy, clingy & annoying
 
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