"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girls and your reputation..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AttackFormation
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CuddleJunkie
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Just two days ago, I met a new girl. After a couple of mins of attraction building she starts making sneaky questions to find out if I have a gf. When she does (just a plate, I don't consider her a gf, but you can't go around showing your power level to the world), she auto-invites herself to come out with me to an activity I was going to later that day.
Girl from another town, we share friends. She's insecure as fvck about me because I remain distant through texting and all that, I'm only warm when I actually see her. She asks my friends if I have a gf or I'm dating other girls. They are honest with her about me not getting into serious relationships. Do you think she lost interest? Hell no, she asked me to visit her in a couple of days just after that.
Virgin chick I banged in summer, through social circle (peripherical enough to be able to pull out something like this). As I'm driving her back home, she asks me "but didn't you had a gf?". I put my Han Solo smile on and change the subject about how fvcking much I love to drive my grandpa's car (the one we were in) and how I want to buy my own mercedes. Do you think I lost her? Hell no, weeks of texting trying to see me again, which I declined.
So go ahead, don't be afraid of being a DonJuan. They crave it.
daddymonsterpoodle
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You don't have to actually be spinning plates, but covertly making it clear you are still interested in other women, keeping yourself attractive, going out without her will let her know.
If women know you are interested in multiple women that is a pretty sexy confident attitude to have.