"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Girls and stalker jokes

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Something I've noticed that teenage girls especially like joking about men stalking them, any thoughts on why that is?


What does it mean when a girl enjoys cracking a joke in a conversation with you about you stalking her? I've encountered this once.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They all would like to think that they are so irresistable that they have or had a man who was that entranced by her that he would follow her everywhere.

I'd say"I'm still deciding if you are worth dating,I'm not going to waste my time chasing you all over town"
 
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sodbuster said:
They all would like to think that they are so irresistable that they have or had a man who was that entranced by her that he would follow her everywhere.
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My thoughts exactly.

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I'd say"I'm still deciding if you are worth dating,I'm not going to waste my time chasing you all over town"
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My response was to laugh and tell her jokingly ''so thats what you like to think?''

But I'm actually more interested in what might be interpreted from her joke.
 
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Why that is?

Because a lot of men don't know how to show their like for a girl without creeping them the f*ck out.

Ever see these guys who hook up with a girl and call them and follow them around from bar to bar for months on end? These are guys who make our job easier. This is why women call certain men 'stalkers'.

All the while these tools are trying to be 'nice' and 'protective' (give me a break you're not even f*cking the girl, less dating her) and are just really being pathetic objects of laughter.

If a chick is really just joking with you about it, she obviously likes you. By saying this, she's really just envisioning that your stalking her and fantasizing about it. I don't think it's really important what you say back to her. As long as you say it confidently.
 
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If she can crack joke with u about it, believe it or not she must like u and b comfortable with u, because if she was bringing it up and wasn't it will just b awkward. She basically likes the thought of getting attention maybe has well, so use that and just play it right back at her and put urself back in a stronger position.

"hmmmm i don't know if ur worth stalking u might just go boring places and chicks flicks and i think i would end up shooting myself halfway through the week, but is there anything u do interesting"

"hmmm i got quite a busy week so i am not sure if i can stalk u that much, how about we meet saturday 6pm at x and we can go have dinner, but u got to kind of ignore i am there or this isn't going to work....., but yeh in all seriousness i would like to see u again so we can meet there has long has u don't mind my stalker friends watching us lol"

"really i was scared that u were going to stalk me, because well i am kinda fully booked already, but my tuesday stalker isn't very consistant, so u can take her place"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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