Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I used to frequent this site years ago and im surprised I was even able to remember my account information. First I will say that im not a DJ by any means, but have slept with many girls and have no trouble attracting or talking to women. I think what would seperate me from being a "DJ" is that I usually date the same girl for a little and if we get into a "relationship" then so be it, before moving on, and i dont really see it as a sport (maybe my definition of a DJ is a bit askew?)

Anyways, how do you professionals deal with girls that you meet that have boyfriends?

I mean ive had girls break up with their boyfriends to go out with me, but i was wondering what your techniques were for getting a girl to leaver that side and come to yours. I mean i met this girl at work about two weeks ago, she was totally into me, really fit and just really ****ing hot, however when in conversation she casually mentions her boyfriend then has a look of almost regretting that she said so...

we've talked on the phone once or twice since i met her but i was on vacation for a week which kind of kept her in limbo i think (unintentional DJ trick)

Id totally be interested in having her be my next couple months... i just wanna see what your guys thoughts and strategies on the situation are... cause i dont know if shed be the type of girl who would "cheat" and even if she did i wouldnt be into knowing that shes getting boned by some other guy at the same time....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ANYONE? i had a date with this chick last night and it was awesome, total kino, she was totally into me and everything....except dig this, me and her are watching a movie and her BF calls her and they get into like some gay fight about her being with me and hanging out at my house.. and when i ask her about her BF while we're out she acts kinda upset and says that its a "long story", am i being an AFC by putting up with this in hopes of more?
 
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girls with boyfriends that show you a little attention usually just want attention back. don't put to much stock in these females. because if she'll leave him for you, then she'll leave you for someone else. don't fly by ego alone. good luck.
 
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BrokenLeftWing said:
girls with boyfriends that show you a little attention usually just want attention back. don't put to much stock in these females. because if she'll leave him for you, then she'll leave you for someone else. don't fly by ego alone. good luck.
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That's true. I know from experience, from being friends with girls (one in particular) that just because a girl with a boyfriend gives a guy attention (even flirts with him after a few drinks) doesn't mean she has any intention of cheating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this girl even called me this morning after our date and thanked me for spending the evening with her, and apologized for what happened during the movie... although i was very cold to her on the phone just saying that it was a bummer but that it was her problem not mine...
 
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Cold? What for? You were dating a girl with a known bf, hoping to steal her away from him, and YOU act like she's the jerk?

There are too many women to go after the taken ones. That was not DJ.
 
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cashc0w said:
this girl even called me this morning after our date and thanked me for spending the evening with her, and apologized for what happened during the movie... although i was very cold to her on the phone just saying that it was a bummer but that it was her problem not mine...
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What is it that you want from her? Is it just to see if you can get her away from her man? The thing that works for me when dealing with females and my ******d emotions with them is I always seem like I don't care. Doing this will go along with. She will try to figure you out and wonder why you don't act or feel like you should in certain situations. Like I said before "leave her alone and find someone else".
 
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