Girls acting wierd

[illmatic1005]

im 16 and it goes like this...

Almost 95% of the time when i meet a new girl(not ugly) i talk to them and make them laugh. I dont act like and AFC or a jerk i just let it flow. when i talk to them for a short while they still are attracted to me. then after another short time ..they start to act shy and intimidated. i also catch them looking at me when i see them. Then in a joking tone i say something about what they are gonig and they laugh and say 'oh i didnt know hehe" but they still do it and sometimes walk past me and try to act like they didnt see me. (not in a mean way tho)

i can tell they are shy and intimidated whenever they are around me but when they are talking to other people they are loud and fearless.

Does anybody know why they become intimidated and shy only around me and is that a good or a bad thing?

Stanks

 

[flexion_]

Ask them out on a date and then you'll know.

 

[blinkwatt]

Ask for numbers and arrange a date,you will learn to filter the phonies in time.

 

[illmatic1005]

thats not the answer i was looking for but o well

i cant ask them out or whatever because i am just too busy with school and soo much work the only time is the summer or week long vacations....

any other way that you already know why they act shy and intimidated?

Stanks

 

[KontrollerX]

Its a good thing.

Means they like you.

Same thing happened to me and the girl really really liked me so I know.

 

[Qmanchoo]

It's very simple. Happens to me on occasion, I have a girl at work that is the exact same way.

She's attracted to you but thinks you're value is higher than hers. Because she thinks your value is higher she's naturally more tentative and unsure about what to do around you as to not "make a mistake"

she probably just "doesn't knwo what to say"

Girls are guys are very similar, really, they have their differences but it's not like we are 100% and completely alien. Emotions are real, we share them but express them differently. Social situations and social interactions carry different but definite contexts, expectations, and pressures. People react to different sitautions by withdrawing or getting defensive if they are unaware of what to do or not experienced.

My advice? You need to keep talking to these girls and make them feel more comfortable over time and eventually they will warm up to you. You have some good natural game going on so keep it up, people won’t usually just LOVE you the SECOND they meet you (and if they do usually they are F’in crazy or socially starved)...or want to hang out and be friends. Give it time, keep working your stuff man.