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Girls act disinterested after first meet but really are

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tryst type said:
I replied: We only hung out once, relax

She replies: I just don't know if I can be into someone who just doesn't seem that interested in me

I said: Think what you want

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Sounds like you get together with women and they don't think they're interested in them, and you don't think they're interested in you. Maybe you should try to build more of a connection. Or maybe you're all just mismatched.

Women be crazy, though. They complain if you don't show enough interest in them. But if you show too much interest in them from the start they'll think you're a creeper. As with everything else, it's a balancing act. Sounds like perhaps you need to be more affectionate though - maybe use more kino. A little less James Bond, a little more Latin lover.
 

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