"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls act disinterested after first meet but really are

zekko

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tryst type said:
I replied: We only hung out once, relax

She replies: I just don't know if I can be into someone who just doesn't seem that interested in me

I said: Think what you want

No response since
Sounds like you get together with women and they don't think they're interested in them, and you don't think they're interested in you. Maybe you should try to build more of a connection. Or maybe you're all just mismatched.

Women be crazy, though. They complain if you don't show enough interest in them. But if you show too much interest in them from the start they'll think you're a creeper. As with everything else, it's a balancing act. Sounds like perhaps you need to be more affectionate though - maybe use more kino. A little less James Bond, a little more Latin lover.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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