"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girlfriend's "sexual tension"

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rswarren

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ure rite it is a good sign that she makes the effort to visit you.... she might be saying the "sexual tension" thing just to ruffle your feathers.
 

SparkleMotion

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Obviously your gut is telling you that something is wrong, otherwise you wouldn't have asked us.

Though it's not a very LD, my experience with LD LTRs has been nothing but negative. They rarely ever workout.

Sounds very typical, but I say go with your gut. If something feels wrong, then it usually is.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Break it off while it's still something you can handle. If your instincts tell you that things aren't cool, they most likely aren't.

Plus, who's girlfriend tells them that she feels "sexual tension" when she hangs around 2 other men in close proximity? I think she's sugarcoating that she's probably been hooking up with them left and right.
 

Boner da Stoner

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tell her you are seeing other girls... and that you love her... and still want cookies
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spider_007

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-her friends obviously are very sexual toward each other (they are together after all) It's notmal that a "very sexual" gurl like her would feel sexual tension if she was sitting there and watching her two best friends "play resle (spelling)" or joke around in a flirty manner. NOTTING YOU CAN DO ABOUT THAT.....

-are you trying to tell us that you want to break up with her but you are trying to to justify it (since she treats you well and all...)???:confused:
 
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