"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriends Favourite Flower

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You understand wrong. Giving 10 pages of dialogue is not giving a tip. Giving a tip is 2-3 short lines that let You make girl laugh and chat with her. Showing full converstaion is not any kind of a proper tip. Every cnverstaion is different. Maybe You havent noticed that girls are not robots and they never answer the same.
Whos a joke now?
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and your last tip was any different? Not from what you described. The girl in your tip would be freaked out, I tried it out last night and t was field tested, and not approved.

Shezzler at least gives a reason... but doesn't exactly say what's going on:

Pardon the lack of specifics - but the Girlfriends Flower can be used to build a connective/humouros bridge at the start of any conversation - girls know about sh1t tests (obviously) so they can connect - and the way you deliver it is very funny - once you get the girl laughing and interested...Its plain sailing.

Shezzler gave his method, he has tones to set it apart and you can go out and develop it. It's also a point that girls KNOW this stuff too, but translate it differently.
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
10 Pages of dialogue? My name isnt Pook.

If you can put a good, field tested tip into 3 short lines then you surely are a PU God.

The reason i put the convo in was to to give an idea of how the piece of dialogue should be implemented into a conversation (ie Pick up).

Your right, every conversation IS different, but the principles of pick-up remain the same - this little connection/C+F piece can be entiwined into any conversation, thats why i posted it.

Whos the joke now? You tell me sweetie (backturn)

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Im the PU God. I can give You one line shot 'Would You give me Your number?'. Works for 4 girls out of 10.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dont think it will make her mad and put you in the dog house, i think it will make her think you tell 5th grade jokes.
 
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I like the idea of telling a story which shows that listening is important. It sets a good screening frame, where you're trying to determine if she's a good listener.

However, I'm not feeling the example you use to illustrate it:

Me: Its like, You have to remember all the trivia that your girlfriend tells you, because
eventually you get tested. She'll go: "What's my favourite flower?" And you
murmur to yourself: "Sh1t, I wasn't listening...Self-raising?"
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I know it's humorous, but it still sets a bad frame. The frame here is that you have to impress girls by remembering lots of stuff about them to compensate for your lack of value. The girl will probably laugh, but still, you will lose value in her eyes.

If you just replace this with something which sets the frame that you are the prize, I think this will be good. Just flip the script -- make is important for other people to listen to you. Example:

Shezz: Ive been thinking, its really important to listen in conversations, and the majority of people who engage -are too eager to get their views in too soon, without enjoying the convo.

HB: Yea i agree (confused look)

Shezz: It's terrible, girls never listen to me, they're always just staring at my ass (she laughs). But you really have to listen, or else eventually I'm going to test you. I'll be like, "what's my favorite flower?" and you'll be like "uh....self-raising?"

[This sets the frame that she has to compensate for HER low value by remembering stuff you say]

HB: LOL!!!

Shezz: And then your in the doghouse....! (rolls eyes)...Nah, but seriously though, you seem like a good listener. Are you? (amplifying the screening frame).

-Dan
 
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