"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mikeymic

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yeh i know the title is a bit startling but it is indeed complicated. you see I known this girl for some time longer than I've known my girlfriend and without doubt i can say... she's interested.
let me make this as short as I can.

I used to hang with this girl ALOT!
she always gave signs of interest but i wasn't experienced enough at the time to see them. one night at a party she left her friends and we sat together on the tailgate of my truck and flirted and whatnot...
and she always wanted to be around me even though I didnt give her my attention, and for some reason she may not be anyone in here's hb10 but theres something about her that brings me in like a magnet.

Once i became experienced as a DJ, It was nothing to get her number and I realized that when I was in her company, she gave more than many signs of interest without even realizing she was doing it. But I started dating another girl before I got a chance with her and this one stuck around.

now I've been with my girlfriend for two years and a half and we go over to her friends house often. you see I'm in love with the girl I'm with and I really don't pay any mind to ANY other girl anywhere, whereas I would look all the time before I commited to her. but the thing is I'm 95% sure her friend would if you know what I mean. If we come over she'll go put her makup on. If we come over and they already have company and she doesn't have any on, she'll go put her make-up on. she runs her hands in her hair, and everything else. she gets me to come close when my girl is away to show me the simplest things. I walked in and she was changing and she didn't say anything, she just checked to see if my girl noticed. and I accidentally grabbed her ass and her tits several times when we go to concerts and sometimes we all wrestle. and one night my girl and I fought and we had a break-up and I called the girl and we talked for an hour while she was working and when I told her not to mention it she never did( believe me I woulda found out cause girlfriends are jealous at certain things).

you seethe girls boyfriend goes outta town because he does nursing assignments and the risk of getting caught are very slim. but it's also on the other hand a good way to feel great while feeling like **** about myself. but I dont ever look at other women just her. I'm completely attracted to her and I know she is as well, yet I am in a relationship with a girl I love and enjoy being around. but even more f***ed up is that they're best friends. any opinions
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Search your feelings to see how strong they really are for your current gf. Maybe after 2.5 years you want to go hunting again, I sure did. If you are still very much into her and love her, then stay with her, and don't pursue anything with this friend of hers. You try to chase two rabbits, you end up losing them both. And then you are the fall guy for all the drama and nastiness that ensues.

And remember Girl Politics 101: They always want what the other girl has. It'd be a shame if you dumped your current gf to get with her, only for her interest to tank once you became "available."
 

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you're right. I mean the fact that she is the only other girl i have interest in makes her a facinating game but it's certainly one i need to avoid as hard as I can. Now as for the last part she's always been at me like she is now since I sat next to her in high school. I met the girl I'm with now a few years after graduation.
 

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If you hit it, you then have to live in hiding, and fear that your regular G/f never finds out .

Secondly do you want any woman to have that kind of power over you ?

Thirdly, would you be OK with Miss 2.5 sleeping with another guy who hangs around her and flirts

One rule for all,dude.
 

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true. very much good point. I'd have to refrain from killing my friend. and I'd have to refrain from one shYtload of a backhanding to her. I guess that really points it out to me, seeing how badly hurt i would be if she did it to me. thanks man much appreciation
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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