"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girlfriend who drinks

Roober

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I think it really depends on your lifestyle. If you drink a lot, it's not such a bad thing. Although, my personal opinion is that of you drink a lot(2-3 drinks a day), you have some work to do on yourself. Drinking shouldn't really ever be anything more than a social thing. I drink heavy when out with friends, but rarely outside of that. What's the point?

If you need a mind altering substance on a regular basis, there is a psychological reason whether you choose to admit it or not. And if you meet a woman who does this, think about that for a second. What suffering is she trying to hide? And what impact does that have on her sexuality, temperament, and future prospect as a partber.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know a few girls that are attractive, one of them I wanted to tear her clothes off and...…… she's got a nice figure...… talking to her getting to know who she is, sounds like a perfect girl, then the truth about how much beer she can guzzle back good bye attraction for her. Guys that I know that have met her and seen her drink they were in shock. She's 30 years old now, still fvcking attractive, but there's no way in hell would you ever get involved with a girl that can drink a flat of beer by herself in one sitting.

Another girl I know alcoholism is a problem in her family she brags it up how she can get slammed, very attractive nice body, she can't keep a man because of her drinking she's a mean drunk. Girl I know enough to say hi to she's the same can't keep a man in her life she drinks too much of the hard stuff, she's got a nice body very attractive but her drinking problem she's late 20s. Girl in her late 20s as well lives not too far down the street where I live, very attractive but looks are deceiving, she's mentally ill and she drinks too much supposedly she's gooned every night again she can't keep a man in her life.

I have some older female friends that have drinking problems both of them get very abusive when their drinking the one of them would start punching and hitting the guy she was dating. He told me she was scary drunk he got rid of her with some trouble I unfriended her in a round about way she was after me before she met this other guy, I sensed she had issues so I kept brushing her off.

Stay away from the women that drink heavily, they could be the number 10 in looks but their alcoholism will ruin it, women that drink have real issues. Come to think of it I have quite a few female friends that have drinking problems they are just friends and no more than that, I don't drink and never have never will. Any of these women I know that have drinking problems can't find a guy that will stick around or they are with a guy that drinks just as much as she does. Alcohol and women don't mix it seems to really fvck them up, women predominately seem to be mean drunks they get nasty, really mouthy, not attractive at all.
Violent and abusive females are much worse than violent and abusive men. Society turns a blind eye.
 

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Alcohol and women don't mix it seems to really fvck them up, women predominately seem to be mean drunks they get nasty, really mouthy, not attractive at all.
A mean drunk is just someone who's rotten on the inside and can hide it while they're sober.

Like how a drunk that cheats on you doesn't mean the evil alcohol corrupts your perfect angel
 

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Violent and abusive females are much worse than violent and abusive men. Society turns a blind eye.
The one woman that was after me that drinks heavy the guy she was going out with who I know really well says when she started drinking she would start swinging he ended up with bleeding nose quite a few times, she would start beating the **** out of him for no reason. Then I heard from people that know her confirmed what she is like.
 

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The one woman that was after me that drinks heavy the guy she was going out with who I know really well says when she started drinking she would start swinging he ended up with bleeding nose quite a few times, she would start beating the **** out of him for no reason. Then I heard from people that know her confirmed what she is like.
Jail and/or defend yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every woman I know drinks heavily, especially the single ones. I would say the majority of people do not feel fulfilled and use alcohol, gambling or excessive social media use to distract them from their crappy lives.
I am currently seeing a woman who wants an LTR. Went over to her place Sat night and she mentioned she went out the night before and was feeling hungover and wasn’t sure how she was going to make it through our date (a sail on a boat). I told her, well if she wasn’t able to make the date then I don’t plan on seeing her ever again.
 

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I told her, well if she wasn’t able to make the date then I don’t plan on seeing her ever again.
that's way too harsh imo. she's allowed to have a life outside of you, and sometimes that life gets in the way. unless you want a shadow ofc.
 
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