You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You should be worried because a person's taste in pornography is reflection of chick's fantasy that want to live out. Unless you're one of those 9" inch long cats, with a 1 1/2" width, who can make her squirt when she nuts, in addition to holding your own ejaculation, she's eventually going to want to experience that, blacks included.Stingers said:Should I be mad?? It's guy on girl pron, nothing out of the ordinary no black dudes lol (srs)
We already do that, I've tied her up, pulled her hair , slapped her on the @$$ while doing it, we've done @n@l and stuff like that.bradd80 said:that's great news, you know when a girl loves watching porn she's into some freaky sh*t. Start slowly getting her to do stuff like letting you tie her up, slap her around, grab her hair, and all kinds of way kinkier stuff other girls won't let you do to them.
Might as well suggest to her you make your own home made pron. Film it with a smartphone or recorder for you both to watch while you fvk her again.Stingers said:We already do that, I've tied her up, pulled her hair , slapped her on the @$$ while doing it, we've done @n@l and stuff like that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well I took that from her_sideways_ said:17 year olds are doing an@l .....there really aren't any type of virgins left in this world
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I got offended and pretty angry because this girl hasnt slipped before and it was all a shock I guess lol. Well she was crying because she thought I was going to leave her and after taking all of her sexual first I know I mean a lot to her (Ive fvcked up a girl like this before, not fun to deal with). Plus, this girl she is really honest, sweet, plays no games and sex whenever I want is good too. In the end I told her to cut the porn (she isnt a porn addict by any means, Im guessing me not being around her for a while and the curiosity got to her) and that I dont want to deal with this again so next time she does this I wont give her a second chance.Vigs said:Its just insecurity if it bothers you.
My ex wife got off on watching Anal porn. Something about the look of pain on the women's faces that would get her going. She however hated anal. So what she watches doesnt mean she actually wants that to happen.
I am not a fan of porn and do not watch it anymore. When I did it altered my tastes and I was never satisfied with regular sex. NOOOOOO I had to **** her in the ass and *** in her mouth. Throat **** her and *** down her throat. I never wanted that stuff until I started training myself to by watching porn.
Since I rebooted from it, I enjoy sex sooooo much more.
She just hates anal with you :cheer:Vigs said:My ex wife got off on watching Anal porn. Something about the look of pain on the women's faces that would get her going. She however hated anal