"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend wants to move to Australia......I dont!

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Originally posted by Not Quite There
haha, not sure about that ratio, nottingham supposedly has a ratio of 5 girls to 1 guy, but i think thats bull****.

Personally, i think its all about leeds for fit girls, lots of fit student girls, and leeds is kinda like a little london, so all the girls are trendy with good dress sense.

funnily enough, met two ozzie girls the other day who said I didn't look english, but looked australian!! I was like 'don't insult me luv' haha ;)

wanna check oz out myself, everyone always raves on about how good it is. Basically England in the sun they say.
bolloks

Basically England in the sun, without whinging they say.

:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If the criminal thing bugs you, come to South Australia, we never had convicts.

**** all happens here though! At least you won't get shot!


If she wants to go, let her and tell her you can't follow.

No sense dramatising over it.
 

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Originally posted by Snowyk
If the criminal thing bugs you, come to South Australia, we never had convicts.

**** all happens here though! At least you won't get shot!


If she wants to go, let her and tell her you can't follow.

No sense dramatising over it.
lol.
u can't actually invite someone to south australia for not having convicts.

how about. "if you really like churches, come to south australia. theres 1 church per every 10 people that live here".

also, would it have been so hard for a convict to move from victoria to south australia?

ALSO i don't think anyone would NOT come to australia because we were all convicts some 150 years ago.
 

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How many actual Aussies do you see her i see more Asians and Wogs (im a wog, wogs are all europeans). Aussies stick to ther own areas Manly and Penrith and Cambpletown or however that palce is spelt.
 

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Yeah, Fair call,

u can't actually invite someone to south australia for not having convicts.
We werent originally settled as a convict settlement though.

Anyway, the convicts we were settled by were more "I stole a loaf of bread to feed my starving children" than "I killed 11 people and made their entrails into a hat"

And the church thing is creepy. I live here and it creeps me out.

WE SHOULDNT HAVE THIS MANY GODDAMN CHURCHES!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
How many actual Aussies do you see her i see more Asians and Wogs (im a wog, wogs are all europeans). Aussies stick to ther own areas Manly and Penrith and Cambpletown or however that palce is spelt.
i live in melbourne.
and i'm white, convict style, australian. english/scottish/welsh type backgrounds, mainly english.

i suppose i don't think about race very often, as its always been here.

but i think that sydney had quite a bit more asians then melbourne (i lived in cherry brooke, near pennant hills if that helps) but i was young, can't really remember. i used to do oragami and read choose your own adventure books with them. they were awesome. :)

in my highschool, the majority was definently 'convict aussie' but there was also alot of 'wogs/asians/arabs'. i've got quite alot of 'wog' friends, and a couple of asian friends, not many arab friends, although my sister went out with one for a long time.

asian and arab next door neighbours.

but definently races tend to congrugate together, i'm not exactly sure why, theres been a Major increase in the ammount of really dark africans coming near where i live. i'm not sure what country they come from, but they are very dark.

i say welcome.
 

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Never follow a woman across country, much less across continents. Unless it's your wife. You'll get there and within three months it'll be over with her. I know too many stories like this.

If you go, make it a vacation with her. But since her family is leaving, so will she. If she really want to be with you she'll propose to you. :p
 
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