"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriend wants to live together with me

Juanto

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if she's not your wife, how is this a consideration?
Dont think you have to be married in order to live with someone else, but i do think the only imperitive situation where you "have" to is when you want to have children with that woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Divorced w 3

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You better be damn sure she’s the one. Good luck getting her out once she’s in. Take it from me. We got the dog the whole thing. It kicked a bunch of expectations off and I literally just inked the deal yesterday after a vicious divorce litigation. Time lost: 13.5 years
 
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Gamisch

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. My experience was once you move in all the mystery and chase is gone. You don't have any time to miss each other. She also became an insufferable nag after moving in.
This. Living together is yet another carrot that dangles in front of us.

The fact that you as a man can "manage " a woman is like a testimony to the world that you are a " real man" . Having and keeping a woman is one thing, and actually convincing her to be around you 24/7 is an whole other ballgame .

So the question is ;why WOULDN'T you do it?
When we walk outside we see couples everywhere! Well, you see what you wanna see. Yet what you wanna see won't necessarily be what you will see.

People asked OP before why do YOU want it? As always the answer is actually coming from the simple question: will she make it easy for you ?
 

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Dont think you have to be married in order to live with someone else, but i do think the only imperitive situation where you "have" to is when you want to have children with that woman.
living with a woman should require a necessitous scenario. having children implies marriage, if there's no intent of either, the situation should not be remotely considered.
 

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Dont think you have to be married in order to live with someone else, but i do think the only imperitive situation where you "have" to is when you want to have children with that woman.
Even then it's not necessary though she will want it. Sosuavers saying they're red pill AF but having tween fantasies about weddings. Social construct/business arrangement. Def has nothing to do with cohabitation. And some guys say "married or engaged." WTF? Too much Beyonce for these dudes, rings aren't magic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it's a question of sovereignty. living alone is undefeated
 
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