Dont think you have to be married in order to live with someone else, but i do think the only imperitive situation where you "have" to is when you want to have children with that woman.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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You better be damn sure she’s the one. Good luck getting her out once she’s in. Take it from me. We got the dog the whole thing. It kicked a bunch of expectations off and I literally just inked the deal yesterday after a vicious divorce litigation. Time lost: 13.5 years
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This. Living together is yet another carrot that dangles in front of us.
The fact that you as a man can "manage " a woman is like a testimony to the world that you are a " real man" . Having and keeping a woman is one thing, and actually convincing her to be around you 24/7 is an whole other ballgame .
So the question is ;why WOULDN'T you do it?
When we walk outside we see couples everywhere! Well, you see what you wanna see. Yet what you wanna see won't necessarily be what you will see.
People asked OP before why do YOU want it? As always the answer is actually coming from the simple question: will she make it easy for you ?
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living with a woman should require a necessitous scenario. having children implies marriage, if there's no intent of either, the situation should not be remotely considered.
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Even then it's not necessary though she will want it. Sosuavers saying they're red pill AF but having tween fantasies about weddings. Social construct/business arrangement. Def has nothing to do with cohabitation. And some guys say "married or engaged." WTF? Too much Beyonce for these dudes, rings aren't magic.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
very true