girlfriend trouble

[dot1]

im confused to how i should be feeling

my girlfriend went to a guy house because she needed a place to crash and im okay with that cuz i trust her the guy offers her his bed so she accepted and she went to sleep she said she woke up and the guy was beside her but she was too tired to get up so she roled over away from him and fell back asleep.

we have talked about stuff like this in the past and conviced each other we would never allow ourselfs to get close to another person like that

she said she was sorry and felt upset i just keep thinking if you really loved me u should have been able to like go to a couch or something

weve talked about it alot and she keeps saying i had no were else to go and it really isnt that big of a deal...

what should i do? just agree its not a big deal cuz i trust her i know they didnt have sex
but it feels like a big deal to me still and ive tried to get over it..

 

[She_feelin_Me]

You can either get over it if you truely trust her...Dont trust he and keep worring about it. Its up to you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I would be ok with it, as long as she never shows any jealousy herself. She doesn't get to say anything to you about who you talk to and where you go.

Interest level is what keeps a girl faithful, and jealousy destroys interest level.

 

[Dante420]

Listen to these words


"This time you may have not had a choice in the matter (this leads her into feeling comfortable with the discussion), but laying in a bed with another man is unacceptable to me and I'd hope you make sure it doesn't happen again"

Bible Belt is right, but that's when your speaking about a girl your not in a committed relationship with. You gotta take some control of the situation if it get's like that, not that it was a big deal. . . . .but some things girlfriend's shouldn't be doing.

 

[dot1]

thank you, i do feel better especially from the last reply by dante420

i seem to have trouble with thinking because i over think way to hard

anyways thank you guys

 

[KontrollerX]

"what should i do?"

She rode that guy's c0ck so the only thing you should do is either dump her sorry ass or fvck one of her friends or her sister assuming she has a sister of legal age and even the score.

If she ever finds out just claim that sleeping was all you did just like she's claiming she was only sleeping and not fvcking that guy.

Problem solved.

I don't understand why everyone always wants to make issues like this so complicated.