"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girlfriend suffers from depression

Brighty

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Jitterbug said:
I had girls with depression and it's true, I couldn't relate to them. What's more important is that I don't have to. I told them let's take a break, it's for the better, and left them to their shrinks.

OP, you're young (and Brighty, you're only a 19 y.o).
I'm not sure what you're implying here. I got out of the relationship.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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beatoven

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Bail, dude, bail.

I was in your boat once. Gorgeous chick, fun to be with, but she had so many issues she became ugly in my eyes.

When I let her go, it was like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.
 
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