"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girlfriend suffers from depression

Brighty

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Jitterbug said:
I had girls with depression and it's true, I couldn't relate to them. What's more important is that I don't have to. I told them let's take a break, it's for the better, and left them to their shrinks.

OP, you're young (and Brighty, you're only a 19 y.o).
I'm not sure what you're implying here. I got out of the relationship.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

beatoven

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Bail, dude, bail.

I was in your boat once. Gorgeous chick, fun to be with, but she had so many issues she became ugly in my eyes.

When I let her go, it was like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.
 
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